Post by Totems4jt on Jul 7, 2008 10:52:32 GMT -5
Lurker 007 Asks...
Hey Jay, I am your ever loving Lurker 007. I have a pretty simple question for you. At least simple for me to ask maybe not so simple for you to answer.
I have noticed that everybody talks about how gorgeous and fine you are. What I wanna know is does this ever bother you? I mean I realize that complements are nice but, if they are use too much they can cause damage.
People may not see you for you and you can become nothing more than a pretty face.
My other question is people always talk about what a good spirit you have and what it would be like if they met you. Does this put any kind of pressure on you to act a certain way when you meet people? I mean are you ever afraid that people won't except you for who you are?
Oops guess I had more than one question.
Jay Writes...
Hello 007, a psychological question...? Hmmmm from someone who rather remain in the shadows... How intriguing...
I always believed it's not what people say is why they said it ... it's not what people do, is why they do it? If you apply that in your life you find the deeper meanings. There is a Jay that exists in everyone's mind here on this forum, now they may be similar but I guarantee that no two mental images are the same. Then there is the Jay I see which could yet be someone else. The compliments are sweet gesture from the fans but ultimately they do not change the mental image I have of myself. I have my mixed background to thank for the way I look but beauty can be a gift or a curse if one does not handle it correctly. Every one of us is being judged at all times and I do agree to some extend Celebes must live up to the expectation of their public but I do not go out of my way to modify my behavior. I was not born perfect I don't believe anyone is but part of purpose in the journey of life is to refine the things that we are passionate about and hope to reach our destination having mastered some of them.
Answer for Shygirl.
Shygirl Asks...
Hi Jay, This is my first time posting a question. I usually have alot to ask but don't because I am too shy and I figure everbody else seems to ask all the good questions. So today I am being brave. I have three ?'s 4u.
My fist question is about that scene in the movie cold mountain where you all got blown up. Did they really blow up something in your faces or was it done mostly by computer?
My second ? is I know that someone already asked about love scenes but I was wondering what kind of preparation does an actor do before a kissing scene. Do you go and brush your teeth or are you sucking on an altoid the whole time?
My third question is which do you prefer boxers or briefs? Good God please do not say commando lol. I just needed to type something to bring the shygirl in me out of my shell.
Thanks for answering my ?'s and if you don't answer them than at least I got my courage today just like the cowardly Lion.
Om Shanti(Peace be with you)
Jay Writes...
Hi Shygirl, Hope you are well. The explosion scene in Cold Mountain was an epic endeavor for the film Makers. Many weeks of preparation was needed to coordinate the battle of Petersburg which began with 4 tons of dynamite exploding that was tunneled beneath the confederacy trenches and it was the largest explosion of it's kind at that time frame in history "1864." To recreate this Anthony Minghella used 80 sticks of dynamite and actually blew up a secondary site that was filmed live with over a thousand soldiers lying near by. Afterwards Jude and I had to do the close ups. We were attached to a contraption that is know as Jerk back and it is a harness worn beneath our uniform and a cable is attached to our back and at the right time we are hurled up and back at high speeds and you really have to relax and go with it or you will hurt yourself. It really is a lot of fun once you get the hang of it almost like a wild ride, but it is a blind landing and they place mats to break our fall. At the same time they blow junk and dust in our faces and a stunt man had to coordinate a flying jump in between us. This was not an easy thing to nail and we were in wool suits and the temperatures at the bottom of the trench was 114 degrees! And you thought it was easy being an actor Ha? LOL. For a love scene you do exactly what you would do before a date And finally as a solider I always go commando!
Answer for Elijah.
Elijah asks...
Do you always get the parts for every movie you try out for? Because I always wanted to be an actor. So I tryed out for a play called The Best chrismas Pagent Ever and i made it. Then I tryed out for a nother play called to kill a moking bird. and didn't get the part. how do you handle being turned down? and would you incourage me to try out for more plays and belive that I can become a good acter just like you are. Thank you, from Elijah
(Hello there Jay, these questions are hand typed by my 10 year old son. He has read some of your posts and has chosen you for his positive role model. Thank you so much for responding to him. Perhaps if he hears encouragement from not only an actor, but also a POSITVE male actor, he will continue on the path he has chosen to make for himself. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your answer.)
Jay Writes...
Hello Elijah, by asking this question you have shown me the first quality that you must posses to be a good actor... Be Fearless. The most important virtue to have in show Biz is persistence. You are being judged every time you audition but not getting the role does not make you a bad actor. Many times a casting agent is looking for specific type for a role and you may not fit that image or you are too tall or too young or not dark enough. There are times that you can change their mind by doing a great audition and making them rethink the role like Laurence Fishburne in the Matrix, Morpheus was not written for a black actor but now I could not imagine anyone else. When you get the chance to audition remember it is an opportunity to show case your talent and have fun and don't let the nerves get to you. I know this can be hard but I always reward myself after an audition no matter what the out come, this way I always look forward to the next one and I have got rid of the negative feelings that are usually attached to a casting call. No, I do not get every role I go for although I make sure if I get in that room I am going to make an impact so they remember me no matter if I get it or not. So always prepare as best as you can and go in doing your best but then you must let go and surrender in what is to come, this way you do not torment yourself. Elijah if you have a passion for acting never let anyone or anything tell you that you should not or could not be what you dream.
Stay with it out of two plays you landed one, this is 50% success rate already so focus on the what you have achieved and not what slipped by you. Work every day at your craft and learn as much as you can and shoot for the stars... the rest is in someone else's hand.
Miss Davis Asks...
Greetings and Salutations Jay!
Believe it or not, I have finally come up with a question that I haven't asked K.R. yet! My Birthday is March 26 and heresay has it that your birthday is late March early April.
Well my question to you is this: What do you like to do on your birthday? Do you like to travel, stay home and write scripts, hang out with friends, or just do whatever you feel like doing, depending on the age of your birthday?
Next year, I'll be 35. I'm planning to leave the country. I want to do a 17 day cruise that starts in Miami and ends in Los Angeles. . .oh, it goes through the Panama Canal! I'm totally looking forward to it! If the one I want isn't available, I guess I'll take a 7 or 8 day one. I want to check out Belize too!
Hope to hear from you soon!
Holler at cha later!
Jay Writes...
Hello Miss Davis, How is it with you? I cerebrate each day as if it was my birthday! For me I always start the day by praying and blessing each day for all that is ahead of me. A new day is a new beginning and I try to remind myself of that and stay in tune with the Planetary cycles depending on the time of the year. Tomorrow is the Spring Equinox which is the true beginning of the year when the day and the night are of equal length signifying the dawn of spring and rebirth. It is a time of starting new and letting go, my birthday is only a few days later. Our World is going through a turbulent phase right now and it is a time of transformation, and as we all know change is never easy. I have no immediate plan but I will celebrate it with some close friends probably. Travailing is one of my passions and a great way to feed your soul, for each nation you visit teach us something about ourselves and also how similar we really are despite the cultural variations. I wish you a safe trip.
Answer for Sami.
Sami Asks...
Ok, ummm....So, I'm a bit of a puppy fan. I love any and all types. My questions relate to your pup Mohawk.
How is Mohawk doin right now? When you have to go travel someplace to do work, do you bring him with you or do you have to leave him at home with a sitter? Also, a lot of the Jaybirds have been calling Mohawk "Momo" which in Japanese means "Peach". I was wondering if you minded us calling Mohawk as Momo.
If you could answer that, you definitely will be putting my mind at ease cuz I always wondered about that. Grin. I have so many other questions but I don't want to overstay my welcome. Grin. I ramble too much.
I like you like I like Whipped Creme!
Rock the Kasbah,
Samantha...aka...Sami
Jay Writes...
Hi Sami, how you doing? Mohawk has several other names that I call him. In fact we have our own little goofy language that he likes me to babble to him. Dogs and Wolves can understand tones no matter what language is spoken and MOMO is one of the names I call him by, I think Sage had mentioned that before, just as I used to call Cheyenne ShyShy.
Ever since Cheyenne past on, Mohawk has become more dependent on me. The worse punishment for him is to be home alone so I have no choice but to take him where ever I go. He rather sit in the car for hours than stay home. I do have house sitters and recently when I was in Santa Fe for a week or so I had several people take care of him and my luck we had the worse lighting storm in history of LA on that weekend. MoMo hates thunder and Chris who was with me on the Red Carpet on the Oscar night was taking care of him and boy o boy she did not get to bed till 5-am. She said he was trying to dig a hole in her bed to get under it.LOL. Now he is normally fearless but thunder is whole other thing for him. I feel very sad when I have to leave him just as a father would and worry as I know how attached he is to me or is it the other way round? I guess that is about it for now...
LOL. Oh, one more thing... you Rock the Kashba too!
Answer for Christi.
Christi Asks...
Hi Jay,
Earlier you said you were working on a screenplay based on a historical event. Can you say what it is, and once you write a screenplay what do you have to do to get someone to use it? Thanks for you time!
Christi.
Jay Writes...
Hi Christi, there are several ways to approach a Screenplay. You could write a synopsis and then see if a production company is interested which is usually not that easy, most people want to see the finished product. When you write an original script it's called a Speck Script. If it's based on a book, an event or an article it's an Adaptation. If you have written a hot script and you really believe in it, then the first thing is not to show it to anyone! LOL. Try to approach a literary agent and see if he or she is willing to represent you. You could also find an entertainment attorney and let him handle it. What ever company you send it to you must accompany your screenplay with a cover sheet from your attorney and date it. Who got it? How long they had it? So you can protect yourself. You can even ask for their coverage which could be helpfull. Now the danger is you cannot safe guard an idea, a lot of times they may steal some aspect of your screenplay if they want but you must take that risk if you want to sell it. Also before you send it out you should register it at WGA which is the writers Guild of America and for a small sum you can date the register and print it on the title sheet of your Screenplay.
It all starts with you getting passionate about a story and then writing it. There are courses you can take to improve your skills and also reading screenplays that have been made into films could really help you to understand what you are up against.
Based on what I just told you I can not tell you anything about my screenplay at least not on this Forum. I wish you all the inspiration in the world.
Answer for Running Red Fox
RRF Asks...
Jay, I recently attended a "Chi for Beginners" class and truly enjoyed it (the movements and the flow of energy). Although I intend to get into it and learn more about it, I would like your point of view. My question is, Do you practice Tai Chi and if so do you incorporate it in with your Martial Arts training OR is Tai Chi already incorporated in the Martial Arts Practice as a whole?
Thank you for your input.
Jay Writes...
Hi Running Red Fox hope you are well. I have studies Tai Chi and Chi Gong which use the body's Chi by Focusing it on one spot. The only Martial Arts I practice from time to time now days is to take one of the Jet's advance classes. We use to do a class at Johnny Cusack place in Venice and you never knew who was going to show up. Every one was equal once you were in class and you had full contact rounds with the likes of Bruce Lee's daughter Shannon Lee or John McEnroe or any number of World Class Kickboxers who would assist him in this grueling 2 hour class. Just like the Tai Chi the main purpose of the class was to tune in with your opponents energy and fight him as he fights you. Match his tempo and rhythm so to speak. This was also a good improve lesson for me as an actor, by keeping my senses sharp. I think any time you learn something new is a blessing. I wish you a joyous Happy Birth day.
Jay. Answer For SingleMom.
SingleMom Asks...
Hello Jay,
I've been "holding back" on asking questions -- didn't want to "wear out my welcome". So, if you can't answer all of them (I'll understand).
(1) I don't know a thing about "the industry", so please tell me, is there much difference filming a movie like "Unbowed" vs. the made for TV movie "Into the West"?
(2) Thinking back on "Unbowed", is there anything you would have changed about Waka Mani's character?
(3) Last but not least, I have often wondered if actors find the love scenes awkward and as a professional how do you prepare for them? Are there "special" love scene coach's or is it the director who calls all of the shots
OK, I've asked enough. Thanks for your time, patience and consideration.
Peace,
Jay Writes...
Hello SingleMom, Into the West was shot no differently than a Motion Picture that would be released on the Silver Screen. In fact there are 6 two hour films and each is directed by a different Talent. In many ways "Migration" had a bigger budget than Unbowed and the production was on much grander scale. I have worked on many large budget Hollywood A list films but it's not the size that matters, LOL, but the content and the appeal of the film.
Waka Mani to me was the last of his kind when Indian warriors walked freely and they were truly enlightened beings who understood and respected the Earth in ways that is hard to fathom with our modern day, right brain dominated thoughts. We shot Unbowed under extreme conditions and many of the scenes where one or two takes so as an actor you can always second guess yourself but it is what it is and I believe it holds it's own magic with all it's flaws.
Love scenes are never easy or comfortable. Unbowed's love scene was born in the mind of Nanci but we shot it at almost Arctic conditions and was one of the most challenging scenes I have ever shot. I know looking at it you cannot tell but we could only shoot for about a minute or so before both Tembi and I would have to stop because we could not stop shivering! I had a Love sense with Kerri Russell in Into The West and we shot that on the second day we had met. It's never easy to create intimacy when you hardly know your partner. A good director always helps but in the end it is up to the actors to create the moment and bring the magic to life. It helps if you like your partner just a bit. LOL.
I want to thank you for the awesome gifts, I really enjoyed the picture. Thank you for all your endless work on my behalf. Have a wonderful Valentine's Day.
Jay.
Answer For Claire Valencia.
Claire Asks...
Hi Jay,
What words of encouragement would you have for children who need "real" life heroes? You seem like the kind of person children would love-they have a sixth sense when it comes to goodness and spirit?
Thanks-C.V.
Jay Writes...
Hi Claire, You know that song... I believe the children are our future, teach them well and let them lead the way... That is one of my favorite songs and it really say's a lot. Kids now days grow up real fast and we can try to guide them but ultimately they must decide for themselves.
One of my favorite poets Kahlil Gibran said it best when he wrote...
Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you and though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
In the tradition of several Indian Tribes the elders advice the young mothers to keep a few years between the kids, sometimes as much as 5-6 years so the one child can get the full attention that they deserve before the next child is born and this way it also eliminates the rivalry between them. Not bad thinking for so called Noble Savages! LOL.
If I was to give any advice I would teach them Self Discipline which would then empower them to achieve whatever their young hearts desire. Self discipline kept me away from abusing myself with drugs and other temptations that were available to me while I was growing up. For me the real super Hero in a child's life is "The Mother" who has one of the hardest jobs in the world a father is important too but they are more like Robin were the Mom is Batman!
Teach them to find their passion and then encourge them to work everyday to improve and to stay with it and allow the rest to come to them.
Answer for Roma.
Roma Askes...
Hi Jay! Good Evening to your Fine Self!
Thank you for taking your time in spoiling your demanding JayBirds & JayBuds. You know we just love the 'devil' out of you!! Now, now... put the pitchfork down! Don't make me pull out my holy water! Could get 'wet & wild" 'round here! (Sorry, you bring out the 'arch-angel' in me!!
OK... Question: What is the most beautiful sight you've seen? What has been the saddest sight? What has made your soul smile? What has moved you to tears? What brings you peace & tranquility?
Love you! SHINE ON!!!
Jay Writes...
Hi Roma, I have been fortunate enough to travel the World and I have witnessed many wondrous events and sites but I also noticed how there are many people who have a lot less than most of us here in American and yet they are a lot happier and more content. I cannot help but feel that most people here have exchanged their dreams for wants and once you attain them it's the next want, yet the emptiness remains. When I was shooting StreetFighter in Bangkok I was on a 6-am run with our Sensay Benny the Jet and some of the cast when I noticed a couple living inside a cardboard box on a connecting bridge over a busy road and everyday that I ran that route they were there and yet they were hugging each other and you could see the love between the two, So the next time I saw them I gave them all the money that I was given for that week for food. It was a sight that left me both sad and yet inspired by the Spirit that they showed in the face of great odds. Yet their love kept them happy inside a simple cardboard box. Watching Cheyenne heal from all the crippling diseases that she had and her finally raising her head and smiling at me, filled me with so much joy that it's truly beyond words. Any time I show compassion instead of punishing someone for whatever wrong they have done to me or walking away when you know you can fight just as easily, my soul is enriched.
I Wish you a delightful birthday and a bright and inspiring year.
Jay.
Answer for Michaelle Kelly
Michaelle Kelly Writes
Hi Jay,
Life is like an open book. Each day we add more to the story of our life. We can't skip to the end of the book because they are empty pages waiting to filled and we can't undo what is already written. However, looking back at the written pages, if possible, what would you rewrite? Or do you believe that everything happens for a reason leaving no room for regret or maybes?
Jay Writes...
Hi Michaelle a philosophical Question I like that. Listen up Grass Hopper! I never regret anything I have done, only the things that I never did. I believe every event that happens to us in neutral and it's the human mind that puts a positive or negative spin on it. For example Steven Hawkings who is one of the most brilliant theoretical Physicist only found his true calling after he was stuck down by the paralyzing disease that left him with nothing to do but to think! Only then he was able to see in his minds eye the fourth and fifth dimensions and beyond. So was his disability a gift or a curse? I do believe that each one of us has a destiny but I also believe that destiny will only take you half way there you have to chart the rest of the way yourself. Also it is hard to judge a book when you are half way through. Sometimes you have to allow the situation to pass before all of the lessons or the reasons are revealed. The most important thing I have learned is before I start any endeavor I will set a higher reason for doing it what I mean by that is do it for some reason more than personal gain. Then relinquish control and work hard but surrender to the unknown and welcome the challenges that are ahead. The Buddhist say it best... If you want to make God laugh tell him all your plans! Wishing you a great new year.
Answer for Shuandalyn.
Shuandalyn Writes...
Hiya Jay! How are you? I hope you had a great Thanksgiving if you celebrate it!
My questions are:
Since you are a screenwriter, is there a timetable for writing screenplays?
What exactly does screenwriting entail developing characters?
Do you have to research a topic before writing a screenplay?
Thanks for your time Jay! Love ya! Peace!
Jay Writes...
Hi Shuandalyn, Nesh Ta Gol Teh(How is it with you?)
Screen writing is an art form. When you write a novel you have no boundaries but a screen play must tell the story you want to tell in about 105 pages, that is the standard nowadays. You can write longer plays but if you want people to read them than the length of your story is as important as the content. I usually write a synopsis of the story I want to tell. It is only a guide or a vague out line. I try to write at least 3-5 pages a day, if I get in the zone than I write till my creative juices run out. I read or watch or even travel to the locations and consume as much material as I can before I start and focus my mind on the topic completely. It is amazing when you focus on something, suddenly everything around you make sense in a different way and you will find your answers everywhere. I am better at story structure but I have worked hard to create characters that see the world from different view points and you will always need conflict to drive the scene forward. Ultimately a good Screen writer must think like a director and see the scenes in his minds eye and write in the genera that the story takes place. Funny writing for comedy and dramatic expressions for Drama and so on. I usually play a song that fits the scene I have in mind and try to write the type of films I like to see on the silver screen.
I wish you happiness in the new year.
Jay.
Answer for Courtney.
Sep 24th, 2004 - 9:44 PM
Courtney writes
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Ameri
Jay Tavare
Apr 27th, 2005 - 11:19 PM Re: Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare Part 2.
Courtney writes
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Americans about past wrongdoings. What do you think about this? Great? Too little, too late?
Jay Writes...
Hi Courtney, great question. I remember in the 2000 Sidney Olympics the Australian athletes wore shirts that simply read "Sorry." They were referring to the treatment of the Aboriginal people of their land. I was touched by this as I'm sure the world was. I feel our nation has had a deep wound on it's side for over 400 years and each generation has put a band aid on it and passed it on, hoping someone else would deal with it. But before healing can occur one must first acknowledge the wrong done. In the 1500s there was an estimated 20 million indigenous people living in America's, by the 1890s there was less than 250,000 left! They did not all pack up and go to Oklahoma. I know this sound harsh but there has been an American Holocaust that no one seems to acknowledge. In fact our government was the fist nation to use biological weapons on it's own people. Many tribes were wiped out without a single bullet being fired. Diseased blankets did a faster job. I could go on but it's no good to point fingers at anyone now. To acknowledge the fact that the American Indians gave up their way of life for the rest of us to live the way we do now and the prosperity that we have come to take for granted is the first step to start the healing that must occur for our Nation to evolve to the next level. If you see yourself as an American then you must learn the Spirit and the wisdom that the Indian elders have left us and never before has it been more necessary to walk the Spirit path and just see one Nation with no colors and no divisions. I wish all of you a happy holidays. Enjoy the Magic the exists among your families.
Jay.
Answer For Niani.
Niani Askes...
Question(s):
Hello Jay, I noticed in one of your responses you spoke about how hard life is on "The Rez" and I don't know if you realize this, but it sounds pretty much like life in "Da Hood"...the two are strikingly similar (diabetes, obesity, suicide, homicide, incarceration rate, substance abuse, domestic violence, etc...) Have you been involved in or would you consider being involved with efforts (not pushing one here) to open dialogue between the two communities (AI & AA) in an effort to curb/cease the continued social deterioration of our 2 groups?
Second part if I may be so bold as to steal some bandwidth...
I also noticed that you did Track & Field back in the day, I did as well...back in the day. I am still an avid fan of the sport, coaching kids as well as attending big meets when I get the chance. Have you heard of the Penn Relays? If so, did you ever run there? Also, what do you think about the current problems with America's sprinters (steroids) and their so-so performance in this year's Olympics?
PS
When will you be on the east coast??
Jay Writes...
Hello Niani, it is true, the Getto's and slums are the same all over the world. As we sit tonight eating possibly our third meal, let us not forget that over half the worlds population go hungry, 'cause there is not enough food for everyone. A dialogue between the Rez and D'hood sounds interesting but both sides need help from others and also by helping themselves. It is hard to be inspired when all around is misery and despair. I do what I can regarding going to talk with the kids as I believe through them we must keep the Dream alive, that all Dreams are attainable and never let that belief be forgotten.
The African Americans and the American Indians have much in common now and in history and a film like Unbowed highlights some of that unwritten history.
I never ran in Penn Relays but did run several middle distance Relay's competition in Europe(4x1500m). I also love to watch Track and Field, there is not enough on TV. I watched most of the Olympics in HD. Loved it. Our Athletes are truly the best trained and some of the best specimens I have ever seen. The
100m Dash Final's was the fastest in History with the 5 top finishers under 9.90! Although Maurice Green missed his mark it was an unforgettable final and the build up was dynamic.
I don't think there will ever be completely drug free games. It is the nature of human beings to push the limits and in doing so some will do whatever it takes to win. Marion Jones was as much a victim of the bad press as she was from not being in her best shape but she will be back. She is still the only women to win five medals in one Summer Olympics.
I have read they are now using a procedure called Gene Doping, where they use a virus to host whatever they want and they can injected the virus directly into the muscle. For example if you want the Quad's to twitch faster you can program the virus to carry that gene enhancer to the muscle and it's virtually undetectable!
Having said all of that for the first time since 1988 less world records have been broken in Track & Field because of the stricter drug testing, the athletes are finally catching up to the drug enhanced performances of that Olympics.
The future looks promising as US Athletes dominate the world once again.
I don't know when I be back on the East Coast but know I will be back. I love NY.
PS. Have a great Birthday and don't worry about my share of the cake.
JT.
Answer For Fontenel
Jay you are a very fit person maybe you can help me with this. I consider my self a healthy person don't smoke nor drink (alcohol), well my eating habits can beg the differ. I try to eat healthy but sometime I eat on the run. I hit the gym, I do good to stay in shape. But I want to flatten my stomach more and shape up my arms. I do crunches all they do is hurt my back. I have brought the AB cruncher and it's collecting dust (don't waste your time) I don't want to lift heavy weights because I don't want to walk around looking like a man. Is there a program that can help a person like me. Any suggestions. Thank you in advance...Peace Fontenel..
Jay Writes...
Hi Fontenel, let me start by saying that in your line of work stress is on a level that most people will never know. I know I have sat in the back seat of a Police car and watched the LAPD in their daily grind. Because of the stress your body produces Sertonem(spelling)? A hormone that increases body fat.
The trick is to find your body type and eat according to your daily activity. You cannot spot reduce, like only lose the fat on the stomach. The abdominal muscles only show when the body fat is under 8%, but there are ways to achieve that.
Rule #1. Watch the carbs! No matter how fit one is, if you consume more carbs than the body can handle in one sitting your body will bloat. So watch the Breads, Pastas, Potatoes, and any sugar loaded foods. You must read the labels. You want foods that are low in sugar and sodium and high in protein and potassium. The Fat is necessary in our food so don't worry too much about the non fat diets. We need fat for the healthy nervous system.
Rule #2. Eat foods that are alive. What I mean by that is stay away from canned or over processed foods. Eat more vegetables and fruits, they contain water and our bodies are over 75% water so is the Earth. Water is life so drink it and eat foods that contain it.
Rule #3. Eat your largest meal earlier in the day. Even if you want a stake eat it for Break fast or lunch and never for dinner. Our bodies have three cycles: Consumption, Digestion and Secretion and as the sun sets the body clock changes our metabolism and we must stay in tune with the cycles of our Planet. Follow the old saying: Eat breakfast by yourself, Lunch with a friend and give your dinner to your enemy.
Rule #4. Stay active, more important than pumping weights is to move our bodies that are designed for motion. The human body is not meant to sit 8 hours a day and stair at a monitor but if that's what you have to do than you still have 16 hours more to move it.
The fitter you are the more energy you will have.
I find running the best fat burner but if you cannot run, cycle or do a spin class or go out and dance your ass off. LOL.
Rule #4. Keep it simple. What I mean is if you want to eat chicken or fish or meat then eat it with a salad, it's better for your digestion than if you eat it with rice or potato or pasta. Now you can have them too but wait a few hours before you eat again.
Finally if you make a fist, that is the size of your upper stomach, so eat less food per sitting. This is one of the biggest problems that our nation faces. We are a nation of SUPER SIZE and it's time to eat enough for that sitting and not for the whole day.LOL.
I have had the pleasure of working with some of the worlds best Trainers and dietitians and what I share with you is a guide line. It's up to you to find what works for your body chemistry as no two people are alike when it come to their bodies.
Hope this will help and once again let the rage go what you did was the highest form of love... Compassion and you must also have that for the poor Mother who is so lost to do what she did.
Stay strong, Nantl-lass.
JT.
Because you are so particular about which movie roles you'll take, I was wondering what is your motivation or reason for deciding to play the Devil in the upcoming movie The Christian?
Jay Writes...
Hi Tossie, nice to see you are still around.LOL
I did turn down many Martial Arts roles after I did StreetFighter. Although it was money in the bank I felt it would have established me as a Martial Artist and that was not why I'm in this business. I had to fight to get recognized as a dramatic Actor and to be in films along side the one and only Meryl Streep and the amazing Cate Blanchett. I do not like to repeat myself in films even though that is exactly what Hollywood does to Actors as soon as they do one type of role well. Like Stallone only as Rocky or Rambo. I realize I have played several Indian roles in a row but they are all different from each other and I did not feel pigeon holed.
My decision to play The Devil was first because I like the book Lost Secrets of Sacred Ark and after meeting Laurence Gardner and spending some time with him I was impressed with his esoteric knowledge.
The Devil was the most beautiful Angel who thought he was Gods equal and his vaninty caused God to dispell him from Heaven. I believe sometimes we learn more form the Dark side than we do from the light. I see myself as a story teller and when you tell a story that makes people think and even discuss their beliefs it's a step in the right direction. It is said that the doors to heaven and hell are adjacent and the doors are unmarked. One man's heaven is another's hell.
I have not chosen to do this Film to disrespect any one or any religion and after it is all said and done, it's still only a Movie and it is there to entertain and provoke thought. Mel Gibsons Passion of Christ was labeled as anti Semitic but the message of his film was about forgiving those who persecute you.
I am journeying into the dark side of myself so don't mess with me sweet heart for the next few months. YOOOHHHAAAAAA... LOL.
Message: G'day Jay! How are ya mate!
This first question relates to the days of old when Crazy Horse was the great leader, Sitting Bull was the great chief and Geronimo was no where to be found
{LOL} OK here's the question, when I look at old photos of Indians I noticed none of them had facial hair, why is that? is because they couldn,t grow beards and mo's or was it a cultural thing, if they shaved what did they use, Hey! not that I'm into hairy faces just curious, so don't go growing hair on your face or I'll be over there with the wax and wax strips OUCH! {LOL}
Here's another one, Do any Indains tribes of today still live their tradional tribal way of life, living in Tipees, dressing in tradional Indian attire ect.. Some Aboriginal tribes do live the tribal way of life deep in the Outback, just another curios Q.
This is most important of all
For what it's really worth,I am a truly loyal, devoted, dedicated die-hard fan of yours and I love you so much, Ok I've rambled on enough, here's some hugs and kisses from me
How's MO Mo, pat for me and give him bone
luv ya mate
Skippy
Jay Writes...
Hello Skippy, or should I say a very Happy Birth Day to you. You have raised a good question. Most Indian Tribes shaved off any hair from their bodies, this included even the eye brows in some of the plain tribes (Lakhota or Pawnee) Although American Indians as a people are not that hairy, some people argue this as a proof of the Migration of the Mongols across the frozen north and into the North America. I believe that some folks were already here and yes people probably walk across and the tribes may have mixed with the indigenous people of the Turtle Island.(USA)
But there are many tribes that did have facial hair. In doing my research for Cold Mountain I found most of the Cherokee's in the 1800s wore a thin mustache and cut their hair into a bob and even wore turbans.
So did the Seminoles and few other Tribes that were in the Mid to South West areas. In some cases Warriors wore hair extension as the belief was the thicker and longer the hair the more power the individual had. In fact some of the Apache leaders did have facial hair and to this day the Stereotypical Indian Images that is planted in our minds eye by the inaccuracy that Hollywood presented in it's films. I have many old photographs that you may never recognize as American Indians, but they are. As far as Tribes living in traditional ways. The answer is yes and no. The Rez life is harsh and our people face great challenges, from Unemployment to drug abuse and homicide and even suicide as young as 10 year olds. Most tribes have ceremonies and events that the People dress traditionally Like the Puberty Dance for the coming of age of every Apache women, signifying her transition from a young girl into adulthood. No, you will not see anyone walking around in a full headdress unless he is still drunk from the night before.LOL.
Hi Jay,
I love to read, (not reading anything right now) but i'm curious to know ....
"What book or books have you read that have inspired you"?.
See this is a easy one. Outside of the obvious questions I would like to ask. I'm behaving this time.
Thank you in advance.
Jay Writes...
Hello WinterLibra, Your name has a good vibe to it. Libra is also a fellow Fire sign and supposedly my opposite, Aries.
I have always been attracted to the Unknown. As I believe real knowledge is like pure Gold, it's real value is directly related to it's rarity. When I discovered Ouspensky and Gurdjeff and their teachings regarding fragments of the unknown teachings it really triggered a deep passion within me that has been burning ever since. The book The Fourth Way and the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying are two books that come to mind. I also have had a real pleasure of meeting some of the elders and leaders in the Native community from all tribes and if you are patient with them the wealth of knowledge some of them possess is staggering. Each day is the birth of new possibilities and every one of us must start again and face the challenges that humbled us yesterday with a fresh look and ask the questions that we have taken for granted again.
What's your earliest childhood memory?
I'd be interested to know.
Jay writes...
Hello DMS... I guess DMS could stand for "Don't Mess with the Sista". LOL.
I guess our memory works best when an event is unusual or has a shock value that makes an impression. We remember pictures and not words.
I remember sitting by a shallow pool when I was about three and half and a one and half year old girl was left in my care, don't ask me how that is possible but stranger thing do happen when adults are in charge. I remember she had her dippers on and as she played at the edge of the water, it flowed beneath her and she slid into the pool. She started to drown floating head down in the water. I ran as fast as I could towards the house to get her Mom but something in my young mind stopped me half way. Somehow I knew even if I could make it to the house which was not too far, still the mother had to run back and I felt she would not make it in time. I turned and ran back and jumped in. The water was up to my neck and the floor was slippery but I summoned all the power that I had and was able to put my head on her belly and push her out of the pool. I have no idea how or why I made does choices but I knew I had saved her life and I felt good about my childish bravery.
Naëlle from france
Jan 4th, 2008 - 2:49 PM Re: Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Hi Jay !
I really love your mind and what you think about human's soul....
When you say that it is easier to punish than to forgive , i can say i feel the same .
I think people could get better if others bring them love . You're this type of other person . For me you're the right man who has find his way . The perfect " Citizen of earth" .... lol
You lived in Europe and i wanted to know where ? And which languages can you speak ? I wanna know it because I'm from france .
I hope you'll answer me .
With all my love,
N .
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Jan 4th, 2008 - 4:05 PM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare - Hi Naëlle from france
Hello Naëlle and welcome. So glad you read some of ' answers to us Please feel free to stop by anytime and I hope you get to read the rest of his Q&A on this Fan Forum and Q&A Page.
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Jan 7th, 2008 - 9:22 AM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Jay Writes
Jay Tavare... Who is he?
So many have tried to describe me lately, so I thought I have a go myself.
After all who knows me best than the observer who has traveled with me all along.
I've never been the type to try to define myself, I've always thought of myself as a Citizen of Earth, in fact my name JAY comes from the much older Latin name Gaia or the protector of Earth.
I believe we are one race, the human race and as different as we may look from one another if you peel the surface the emotional content is the same.
We all feel love and pain and we are inspired by acts of bravery and self sacrifice, we are really more a like than we like to admit.
As an actor I see myself as a process, always changing and re inventing myself . I know some have described me as multi ethnic but that only applies to me because I was raised in more than one culture and not because I have more than one blood in my veins.
I have live in Europe and Asia and America's I have traveled all over the world and spend time learning about other cultures, I speak several languages beside the Native languages I know. I did most of this before I became an actor which is really only an artistic out let for my soul and there is so much more to who I am than my profession.
I was put in a boarding school when I was very young, my sponsored parents, which is what I call them, as I did not live with them but they paid my bills till I landed a sport scholarship to my European private school.
I was always interested in Science and Biology & Bio chemistry and how the human body and mind works so I thought I would become a Dr. and I studied to be one.
But I found my stage in sport arena's where the sound of excitement from the audience would push me to rise to the occasion and perform my very best.
This passion lead me to theater and national commercials and I was in a band or two who did some gigs all over Europe and I did win the World Free Style Dance Championship with my Acrobatic break dancing electric body popping routine which for the mid 80's was brand new and I can honestly say I was there at the birth of B Boys and hip hop and I was a head of my time.
My Indian life came to me as I reached into American history and found so many stories that were left out of the history books. I did extensive research for each of my roles and as I became the characters I portrayed I took a piece of them with me.
I am not a spoke person for any tribe or race and I feel I represent all people of color in Hollywood and not just Indians to which I have a close heritage.
I try to help others but I do not claim saint hood and I do not want to be a role model although if others follow me that is okay by me.
I base my life on what I have learned. I have had many great teachers in my life but my best asset has been my never ending thirst for the unknown and intangible...
To be continued....
Running Red Fox (Forum Hostess)
Feb 5th, 2008 - 6:15 AM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Hello everyone, below is the very first Q&A Session that took place on this Fan Forum back in 2004.
Happy Reading
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Jay Tavare’s Q&A from 2004.
Posted by Sage
Jul 20, 04 - 10:07AM QUESTIONS:
My Question for Jay is:
WHICH ROLE YOU'VE PLAYED IS YOUR FAVORITE TO DATE?
IS IT MATTHEW OSCEOLA, or SWIMMER or KAYITAH or VEGA or one of your new upcoming roles?
~ Sage
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 2:31PM Answer for Sage.
Jay Writes
I try to do parts that as soon as I read the script something in my soul is moved by it. I have enjoyed each and every one of the character I have portrayed but Kayitah was very rewarding for the chance to play an Apache as they were in their full glory. A dream part in a wounderful film. And working with Elbys who was the Great Grand Daughter of Cochise and the Location New Mexico and Santa Fe only added to the Magic. Having Ron Howard as your boss and Cate and Tommy as co-workers was not bad either. And finally the Native cast was amazing including Eric's performance and Simon Bakers who played my son both brilliant actors.
JT>
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Posted by Rowena
Jul 20th, 2004 - 10:57AM Re: QUESTIONS:
My question for Jay is:
How do your prepare yourself for the character you play? Are you a method actor where you stay in that character 24 hours a day and live in that character's personality? Or are you able to step into that character's shoes but at the end of the day let the character go?
Thanks!
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 2:20PM Answer for Rowena.
Jay Writes
I approach each role by as much research as possible to me getting ready for a part is a tremendous opportunity to learn and to live another life. The process fuels my passion. But once I have a back story and I usually do this for the larger parts. I create who this person was, his home his family the behavior that got him to were he is in the film. But once the shooting begins I have fun with it and let the organic process of film making guide me. No, I do not stay in character all day although in a highly emotional scene I will stay with that emotion longer.
JT>
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Posted by Toosie
Jul 20th, 2004 - 6:12PM Re: QUESTIONS:
1. Jay, after your vision quest, were you given an Indian name? If so, what is it?
2. Jay, have you participated in the Sun Dance? Is the Sun Dance only practiced within the Sioux Nation or do other tribes participate in it?
3. Jay, I am pleased to hear that you will be on a panel to preserve Indian dialects. Is there going to be anyway for those of us who may be interested in learning one of those languages to be able to take a course?
4. Jay, you have a most unique voice, I was just wondering what dialect that is?
5. Jay, how do you stay “so centered” in a business that is all about “me?”
6. Jay, do you hold to any one faith? If so, what is it?
7. Jay do you know why so many Native Americans continue to live on the Rez with poverty being so low and jobs so scarce.
8. Jay, do you know if the Treaties that were set a long time ago are still being honored today? (I am from Michigan and we have a variety of treaties within the state, whether it is property rights or education. At the University of Michigan, if you are at least 25% Native American and have registered as such, you are supposed to receive free tuition. A few years ago, my friend thought she was going to use that opportunity, but was denied. She tried to force the issue and was told that that treaty no longer guarantees a free education.)
9.Jay, how many Native American tribes are there today and how many are now extinct?
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 3:11PM Answer for Toosie.
Jay Writes
Hi Tossie,You normally do not speak of your Indian name unless in ceremonies but I will say my Apache name means:
"He Who Remembers The Past"
Yes, the Sun Dance is a Plains Indian tradition mostly the Lakota's and the Cheyenne's and a few other northern tribes would participate in it, it is still done once a year in the summer.
My voice is my own as I have lived in so many places and I consider myself a Citizen of the Earth.
I respect all religions as they are different chapters of the same book. All enlightened beings come to similar conclusion and it is usually found in solitude where you find both God and self.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Skippy
Jul 20th, 2004 - 11:07PM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hi Jay,
How many Indian languages do you speak and which ones are they?
I hear you can ride the a** of a horse, have you been riding for a long time, did you take lessons, do you ride bareback? If ever you get to the land Down Under
maybe you can teach me{lol}
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 4:27PM Answer for Skippy.
Jay Writes
I am a good mimic and can learn things very quickly and make it look like I have done so all my life and I have Spoken a few different Indian dialects in my films, I think they are mentioned on the web somewhere. I am not fluent in any of them although I'm continuing to work on my Athobascan which is the language family of the Apache's and Navajo's. Inde and Dineh.
I have been riding since I was in single digit years and yes I can bare back and did learn a few new tricks on the set of The Missing as we had several of the best riders I have ever seen. Rod, Judson and Dutch to name a few. Great guys with crazy skills.
BTW I loved Australia and would love to go back to make another film there. Who knows one day I'll be back.
JT>
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Posted by Lani
Jul 21st, 2004 - 3:11AM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hi Jay
i'd like to answer 2 good question's!
what's it like to be a proud Native american actor & person too ,
what made you interested in the role of Street-fighter Vega
?
from Lani,
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 4:05PM Answer for Lani.
Jay Writes
Hi Lani I see myself as a human being first and just like everyone else my heritage is part of who I am but to be proud without substance can be dangerous so I keep my feet firmly on the Earth and shoot for the stars.
VEGA Was the coolest of the StreetFighter Characters and as soon as I read the script I could see him in my head a flamboyant fighter that puts on the show it's not just to defeat your opponent but to teach them a lesson too. He was fast like a mongoose making the Cobra pay with each strike, and I had to fight for the way I looked in the film because the Director had different Ideas for VEGA.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Samantha Inoue Harte
Jul 20th, 2004 - 4:34PM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hmmmm....I have a few questions. I hope that they get answered.
1) how does it make you feel to know that hundreds of men and women adore you enough to regularly post on this forum about your looks, contemplate your age, and religiously watch your films? You have to know that you are very handsome...but have you ever wished that you could just be an average man and not be adored because of your "star" title, for your money, or for your good looks? Has it been hard to find someone who would like you for who you are and not for all the above?
2) Could you tell us if you are feeling better ever since Cheyenne passed, if you are getting along well? Is Mohawk doing alright? Was he phased at all? Would you ever consider ever getting another puppy in the future or would it be too soon. And how did you come to own Mohawk? And what attracted you to specifically Wolfdogs and Sammies (I like that nickname)
3) If you could give advice to a person who is currently pursuing an acting career who is also of mixed race (I'm Eurasian and of indiginous japanese Ainu descent), what would your best advice be?
4) The previous message that you had posted concerning Cheyenne gave off a sense of buddhist spirituality. There are many branches of Buddhism and if you were, which branch are you? If not, could you go into detail about your personal beliefs about life?
There are so many more questions that I would want to ask...but some of those may be inappropriate. so of course, i'll be a good girl and not bombard you with more. grin. but if any one of these questions could be answered I would do another flip of joy. grin. I'd probably do cartwheels all up and down the road if you did.
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 5:09PM Answer for Samantha Inoue Harte.
Jay Writes
Ever since I won the World Dance Championship I have been on a stage with eyes watching me. At first the fame seemed OH.. so seductive but as I have grown as a man and as a Human being I have come to except who I am and forget about the fame and money, instead to follow my heart and always do the best that I can and then surrender to what is to come. I feed off the energy of my audience but I do not feed that energy to my ego rather I direct it to being more creative and giving back to the hungry eyes that watch me. I was born with a gift as each and every one of you are too. The tricks is to find what it is that you are good at and then find a way to make a life style of it and even better make money from it and help others along the way. It all starts with finding your passion, follow that and the rest will come.
I do not see myself as a STAR. I'm a thespian and a story teller and through my work I hope to inspire, educate and entertain, if I can achieve that in a film or a book or a screenplay I have done my job.
The passing of Cheyenne has been hard on both Mohawk an I but we must go on as the grief is the body's way of healing you from the inside. Now I feel stronger and ready to make all of you my darling fans proud of me.
BTW thank you for your animation of Cheyenne you are a bright and talented young lady and do not be afraid to leave the nest as even the mother Eagle pushes the young Eagles out of the nest she knows it is for the good of them that they must fly.
Sammies are a very special dogs they were the dogs of the Mongolians and the bond with the tribal people has left certain personality traits that are unique to them. Also the Wolf one of the most misunderstood creatures of the Mother Earth is not unlike the Indians who got wiped out.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Rose
Jul 20th, 2004 - 12:51PM Re: QUESTIONS:
My questions for Jay are:
From your first role as Vega in the Streetfighter movie to your current projects, what convinced you to take each of your roles, and can you explain in detail the training/research you took for each role?
Would you ever again do any projects for the younger (and young at heart!) generations?
If one of your fans wanted to learn Native traditions (tribal healing dances, making Dreamcatchers et cetera), would you 'tutor' them and/or would you refer them to your tribes?
Can you submit some sound clips from some of your projects to this site? Including your upcoming ones, of course!
How do you feel about us fans worshipping you *this* much?
We can't wait to hear from you, Jay!
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 26th, 2004 - 10:14AM Answer for Rose.
Jay Writes
Hi Rose if I was to answer all your questions, it will be a book so I will talk about Street Fighter since I know you are a huge fan.
VEGA was a great opportunity for me to show case my physical skills. I learned from the British Actors when you have the characters walk you have the character so VEGA was a fun and colorful character. I trained very hard for this film as I knew I was supposed to be the Greatest Cage fighter since Iron fist who was Wes Studi's character who was my boss. When I met Benny the Jet who is a legend in the Martial Arts World we quickly bonded and he allowed me to use my dance and Acrobatic skills to create a style for VEGA and believe me fighting with a steel claw and a mask that was hard to breath in was not easy. I also enjoyed shooting in Thailand and Australia and Canada very much. I would do a picture for the younger generation as I don't see myself as old. The best way to learn Indian Art is to just do it, as all Indian art or any art for that fact is an expression of the Spirit and it is already in you.
I am privilege to have so much love from my fans and without the fans being a performing Artist has no meaning.
JT>
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Posted vy Elizabeth Lampert
Jul 21st, 2004 - 8:40 AM Re: QUESTIONS:
Native artwork and culture is such an interesting subject.
Did the Apache people ever make pottery or create any kind of specialized jewelry?
And did the Navajo ever grow corn?
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 3:24PM Answer for Elizabeth Lampert.
Jay Writes
Hi Elizabeth, the answer is not really, The Apaches did some form of art but it was the Dineh Nation who learned from the Zuni's the wonderful silver work and carpet and basket weaving. The Navajo's did grow corn, they were sheep hearders as well and more peacefull than the Apache's who roamed and raided more often. BTW Dineh is the correct name for the Navajo's as most Indian tribes have a different name for themselves. Usually translated to mean The People. The Apache's were called Inde.
JT>
Hey Jay, I am your ever loving Lurker 007. I have a pretty simple question for you. At least simple for me to ask maybe not so simple for you to answer.
I have noticed that everybody talks about how gorgeous and fine you are. What I wanna know is does this ever bother you? I mean I realize that complements are nice but, if they are use too much they can cause damage.
People may not see you for you and you can become nothing more than a pretty face.
My other question is people always talk about what a good spirit you have and what it would be like if they met you. Does this put any kind of pressure on you to act a certain way when you meet people? I mean are you ever afraid that people won't except you for who you are?
Oops guess I had more than one question.
Jay Writes...
Hello 007, a psychological question...? Hmmmm from someone who rather remain in the shadows... How intriguing...
I always believed it's not what people say is why they said it ... it's not what people do, is why they do it? If you apply that in your life you find the deeper meanings. There is a Jay that exists in everyone's mind here on this forum, now they may be similar but I guarantee that no two mental images are the same. Then there is the Jay I see which could yet be someone else. The compliments are sweet gesture from the fans but ultimately they do not change the mental image I have of myself. I have my mixed background to thank for the way I look but beauty can be a gift or a curse if one does not handle it correctly. Every one of us is being judged at all times and I do agree to some extend Celebes must live up to the expectation of their public but I do not go out of my way to modify my behavior. I was not born perfect I don't believe anyone is but part of purpose in the journey of life is to refine the things that we are passionate about and hope to reach our destination having mastered some of them.
Answer for Shygirl.
Shygirl Asks...
Hi Jay, This is my first time posting a question. I usually have alot to ask but don't because I am too shy and I figure everbody else seems to ask all the good questions. So today I am being brave. I have three ?'s 4u.
My fist question is about that scene in the movie cold mountain where you all got blown up. Did they really blow up something in your faces or was it done mostly by computer?
My second ? is I know that someone already asked about love scenes but I was wondering what kind of preparation does an actor do before a kissing scene. Do you go and brush your teeth or are you sucking on an altoid the whole time?
My third question is which do you prefer boxers or briefs? Good God please do not say commando lol. I just needed to type something to bring the shygirl in me out of my shell.
Thanks for answering my ?'s and if you don't answer them than at least I got my courage today just like the cowardly Lion.
Om Shanti(Peace be with you)
Jay Writes...
Hi Shygirl, Hope you are well. The explosion scene in Cold Mountain was an epic endeavor for the film Makers. Many weeks of preparation was needed to coordinate the battle of Petersburg which began with 4 tons of dynamite exploding that was tunneled beneath the confederacy trenches and it was the largest explosion of it's kind at that time frame in history "1864." To recreate this Anthony Minghella used 80 sticks of dynamite and actually blew up a secondary site that was filmed live with over a thousand soldiers lying near by. Afterwards Jude and I had to do the close ups. We were attached to a contraption that is know as Jerk back and it is a harness worn beneath our uniform and a cable is attached to our back and at the right time we are hurled up and back at high speeds and you really have to relax and go with it or you will hurt yourself. It really is a lot of fun once you get the hang of it almost like a wild ride, but it is a blind landing and they place mats to break our fall. At the same time they blow junk and dust in our faces and a stunt man had to coordinate a flying jump in between us. This was not an easy thing to nail and we were in wool suits and the temperatures at the bottom of the trench was 114 degrees! And you thought it was easy being an actor Ha? LOL. For a love scene you do exactly what you would do before a date And finally as a solider I always go commando!
Answer for Elijah.
Elijah asks...
Do you always get the parts for every movie you try out for? Because I always wanted to be an actor. So I tryed out for a play called The Best chrismas Pagent Ever and i made it. Then I tryed out for a nother play called to kill a moking bird. and didn't get the part. how do you handle being turned down? and would you incourage me to try out for more plays and belive that I can become a good acter just like you are. Thank you, from Elijah
(Hello there Jay, these questions are hand typed by my 10 year old son. He has read some of your posts and has chosen you for his positive role model. Thank you so much for responding to him. Perhaps if he hears encouragement from not only an actor, but also a POSITVE male actor, he will continue on the path he has chosen to make for himself. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your answer.)
Jay Writes...
Hello Elijah, by asking this question you have shown me the first quality that you must posses to be a good actor... Be Fearless. The most important virtue to have in show Biz is persistence. You are being judged every time you audition but not getting the role does not make you a bad actor. Many times a casting agent is looking for specific type for a role and you may not fit that image or you are too tall or too young or not dark enough. There are times that you can change their mind by doing a great audition and making them rethink the role like Laurence Fishburne in the Matrix, Morpheus was not written for a black actor but now I could not imagine anyone else. When you get the chance to audition remember it is an opportunity to show case your talent and have fun and don't let the nerves get to you. I know this can be hard but I always reward myself after an audition no matter what the out come, this way I always look forward to the next one and I have got rid of the negative feelings that are usually attached to a casting call. No, I do not get every role I go for although I make sure if I get in that room I am going to make an impact so they remember me no matter if I get it or not. So always prepare as best as you can and go in doing your best but then you must let go and surrender in what is to come, this way you do not torment yourself. Elijah if you have a passion for acting never let anyone or anything tell you that you should not or could not be what you dream.
Stay with it out of two plays you landed one, this is 50% success rate already so focus on the what you have achieved and not what slipped by you. Work every day at your craft and learn as much as you can and shoot for the stars... the rest is in someone else's hand.
Miss Davis Asks...
Greetings and Salutations Jay!
Believe it or not, I have finally come up with a question that I haven't asked K.R. yet! My Birthday is March 26 and heresay has it that your birthday is late March early April.
Well my question to you is this: What do you like to do on your birthday? Do you like to travel, stay home and write scripts, hang out with friends, or just do whatever you feel like doing, depending on the age of your birthday?
Next year, I'll be 35. I'm planning to leave the country. I want to do a 17 day cruise that starts in Miami and ends in Los Angeles. . .oh, it goes through the Panama Canal! I'm totally looking forward to it! If the one I want isn't available, I guess I'll take a 7 or 8 day one. I want to check out Belize too!
Hope to hear from you soon!
Holler at cha later!
Jay Writes...
Hello Miss Davis, How is it with you? I cerebrate each day as if it was my birthday! For me I always start the day by praying and blessing each day for all that is ahead of me. A new day is a new beginning and I try to remind myself of that and stay in tune with the Planetary cycles depending on the time of the year. Tomorrow is the Spring Equinox which is the true beginning of the year when the day and the night are of equal length signifying the dawn of spring and rebirth. It is a time of starting new and letting go, my birthday is only a few days later. Our World is going through a turbulent phase right now and it is a time of transformation, and as we all know change is never easy. I have no immediate plan but I will celebrate it with some close friends probably. Travailing is one of my passions and a great way to feed your soul, for each nation you visit teach us something about ourselves and also how similar we really are despite the cultural variations. I wish you a safe trip.
Answer for Sami.
Sami Asks...
Ok, ummm....So, I'm a bit of a puppy fan. I love any and all types. My questions relate to your pup Mohawk.
How is Mohawk doin right now? When you have to go travel someplace to do work, do you bring him with you or do you have to leave him at home with a sitter? Also, a lot of the Jaybirds have been calling Mohawk "Momo" which in Japanese means "Peach". I was wondering if you minded us calling Mohawk as Momo.
If you could answer that, you definitely will be putting my mind at ease cuz I always wondered about that. Grin. I have so many other questions but I don't want to overstay my welcome. Grin. I ramble too much.
I like you like I like Whipped Creme!
Rock the Kasbah,
Samantha...aka...Sami
Jay Writes...
Hi Sami, how you doing? Mohawk has several other names that I call him. In fact we have our own little goofy language that he likes me to babble to him. Dogs and Wolves can understand tones no matter what language is spoken and MOMO is one of the names I call him by, I think Sage had mentioned that before, just as I used to call Cheyenne ShyShy.
Ever since Cheyenne past on, Mohawk has become more dependent on me. The worse punishment for him is to be home alone so I have no choice but to take him where ever I go. He rather sit in the car for hours than stay home. I do have house sitters and recently when I was in Santa Fe for a week or so I had several people take care of him and my luck we had the worse lighting storm in history of LA on that weekend. MoMo hates thunder and Chris who was with me on the Red Carpet on the Oscar night was taking care of him and boy o boy she did not get to bed till 5-am. She said he was trying to dig a hole in her bed to get under it.LOL. Now he is normally fearless but thunder is whole other thing for him. I feel very sad when I have to leave him just as a father would and worry as I know how attached he is to me or is it the other way round? I guess that is about it for now...
LOL. Oh, one more thing... you Rock the Kashba too!
Answer for Christi.
Christi Asks...
Hi Jay,
Earlier you said you were working on a screenplay based on a historical event. Can you say what it is, and once you write a screenplay what do you have to do to get someone to use it? Thanks for you time!
Christi.
Jay Writes...
Hi Christi, there are several ways to approach a Screenplay. You could write a synopsis and then see if a production company is interested which is usually not that easy, most people want to see the finished product. When you write an original script it's called a Speck Script. If it's based on a book, an event or an article it's an Adaptation. If you have written a hot script and you really believe in it, then the first thing is not to show it to anyone! LOL. Try to approach a literary agent and see if he or she is willing to represent you. You could also find an entertainment attorney and let him handle it. What ever company you send it to you must accompany your screenplay with a cover sheet from your attorney and date it. Who got it? How long they had it? So you can protect yourself. You can even ask for their coverage which could be helpfull. Now the danger is you cannot safe guard an idea, a lot of times they may steal some aspect of your screenplay if they want but you must take that risk if you want to sell it. Also before you send it out you should register it at WGA which is the writers Guild of America and for a small sum you can date the register and print it on the title sheet of your Screenplay.
It all starts with you getting passionate about a story and then writing it. There are courses you can take to improve your skills and also reading screenplays that have been made into films could really help you to understand what you are up against.
Based on what I just told you I can not tell you anything about my screenplay at least not on this Forum. I wish you all the inspiration in the world.
Answer for Running Red Fox
RRF Asks...
Jay, I recently attended a "Chi for Beginners" class and truly enjoyed it (the movements and the flow of energy). Although I intend to get into it and learn more about it, I would like your point of view. My question is, Do you practice Tai Chi and if so do you incorporate it in with your Martial Arts training OR is Tai Chi already incorporated in the Martial Arts Practice as a whole?
Thank you for your input.
Jay Writes...
Hi Running Red Fox hope you are well. I have studies Tai Chi and Chi Gong which use the body's Chi by Focusing it on one spot. The only Martial Arts I practice from time to time now days is to take one of the Jet's advance classes. We use to do a class at Johnny Cusack place in Venice and you never knew who was going to show up. Every one was equal once you were in class and you had full contact rounds with the likes of Bruce Lee's daughter Shannon Lee or John McEnroe or any number of World Class Kickboxers who would assist him in this grueling 2 hour class. Just like the Tai Chi the main purpose of the class was to tune in with your opponents energy and fight him as he fights you. Match his tempo and rhythm so to speak. This was also a good improve lesson for me as an actor, by keeping my senses sharp. I think any time you learn something new is a blessing. I wish you a joyous Happy Birth day.
Jay. Answer For SingleMom.
SingleMom Asks...
Hello Jay,
I've been "holding back" on asking questions -- didn't want to "wear out my welcome". So, if you can't answer all of them (I'll understand).
(1) I don't know a thing about "the industry", so please tell me, is there much difference filming a movie like "Unbowed" vs. the made for TV movie "Into the West"?
(2) Thinking back on "Unbowed", is there anything you would have changed about Waka Mani's character?
(3) Last but not least, I have often wondered if actors find the love scenes awkward and as a professional how do you prepare for them? Are there "special" love scene coach's or is it the director who calls all of the shots
OK, I've asked enough. Thanks for your time, patience and consideration.
Peace,
Jay Writes...
Hello SingleMom, Into the West was shot no differently than a Motion Picture that would be released on the Silver Screen. In fact there are 6 two hour films and each is directed by a different Talent. In many ways "Migration" had a bigger budget than Unbowed and the production was on much grander scale. I have worked on many large budget Hollywood A list films but it's not the size that matters, LOL, but the content and the appeal of the film.
Waka Mani to me was the last of his kind when Indian warriors walked freely and they were truly enlightened beings who understood and respected the Earth in ways that is hard to fathom with our modern day, right brain dominated thoughts. We shot Unbowed under extreme conditions and many of the scenes where one or two takes so as an actor you can always second guess yourself but it is what it is and I believe it holds it's own magic with all it's flaws.
Love scenes are never easy or comfortable. Unbowed's love scene was born in the mind of Nanci but we shot it at almost Arctic conditions and was one of the most challenging scenes I have ever shot. I know looking at it you cannot tell but we could only shoot for about a minute or so before both Tembi and I would have to stop because we could not stop shivering! I had a Love sense with Kerri Russell in Into The West and we shot that on the second day we had met. It's never easy to create intimacy when you hardly know your partner. A good director always helps but in the end it is up to the actors to create the moment and bring the magic to life. It helps if you like your partner just a bit. LOL.
I want to thank you for the awesome gifts, I really enjoyed the picture. Thank you for all your endless work on my behalf. Have a wonderful Valentine's Day.
Jay.
Answer For Claire Valencia.
Claire Asks...
Hi Jay,
What words of encouragement would you have for children who need "real" life heroes? You seem like the kind of person children would love-they have a sixth sense when it comes to goodness and spirit?
Thanks-C.V.
Jay Writes...
Hi Claire, You know that song... I believe the children are our future, teach them well and let them lead the way... That is one of my favorite songs and it really say's a lot. Kids now days grow up real fast and we can try to guide them but ultimately they must decide for themselves.
One of my favorite poets Kahlil Gibran said it best when he wrote...
Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you and though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
In the tradition of several Indian Tribes the elders advice the young mothers to keep a few years between the kids, sometimes as much as 5-6 years so the one child can get the full attention that they deserve before the next child is born and this way it also eliminates the rivalry between them. Not bad thinking for so called Noble Savages! LOL.
If I was to give any advice I would teach them Self Discipline which would then empower them to achieve whatever their young hearts desire. Self discipline kept me away from abusing myself with drugs and other temptations that were available to me while I was growing up. For me the real super Hero in a child's life is "The Mother" who has one of the hardest jobs in the world a father is important too but they are more like Robin were the Mom is Batman!
Teach them to find their passion and then encourge them to work everyday to improve and to stay with it and allow the rest to come to them.
Answer for Roma.
Roma Askes...
Hi Jay! Good Evening to your Fine Self!
Thank you for taking your time in spoiling your demanding JayBirds & JayBuds. You know we just love the 'devil' out of you!! Now, now... put the pitchfork down! Don't make me pull out my holy water! Could get 'wet & wild" 'round here! (Sorry, you bring out the 'arch-angel' in me!!
OK... Question: What is the most beautiful sight you've seen? What has been the saddest sight? What has made your soul smile? What has moved you to tears? What brings you peace & tranquility?
Love you! SHINE ON!!!
Jay Writes...
Hi Roma, I have been fortunate enough to travel the World and I have witnessed many wondrous events and sites but I also noticed how there are many people who have a lot less than most of us here in American and yet they are a lot happier and more content. I cannot help but feel that most people here have exchanged their dreams for wants and once you attain them it's the next want, yet the emptiness remains. When I was shooting StreetFighter in Bangkok I was on a 6-am run with our Sensay Benny the Jet and some of the cast when I noticed a couple living inside a cardboard box on a connecting bridge over a busy road and everyday that I ran that route they were there and yet they were hugging each other and you could see the love between the two, So the next time I saw them I gave them all the money that I was given for that week for food. It was a sight that left me both sad and yet inspired by the Spirit that they showed in the face of great odds. Yet their love kept them happy inside a simple cardboard box. Watching Cheyenne heal from all the crippling diseases that she had and her finally raising her head and smiling at me, filled me with so much joy that it's truly beyond words. Any time I show compassion instead of punishing someone for whatever wrong they have done to me or walking away when you know you can fight just as easily, my soul is enriched.
I Wish you a delightful birthday and a bright and inspiring year.
Jay.
Answer for Michaelle Kelly
Michaelle Kelly Writes
Hi Jay,
Life is like an open book. Each day we add more to the story of our life. We can't skip to the end of the book because they are empty pages waiting to filled and we can't undo what is already written. However, looking back at the written pages, if possible, what would you rewrite? Or do you believe that everything happens for a reason leaving no room for regret or maybes?
Jay Writes...
Hi Michaelle a philosophical Question I like that. Listen up Grass Hopper! I never regret anything I have done, only the things that I never did. I believe every event that happens to us in neutral and it's the human mind that puts a positive or negative spin on it. For example Steven Hawkings who is one of the most brilliant theoretical Physicist only found his true calling after he was stuck down by the paralyzing disease that left him with nothing to do but to think! Only then he was able to see in his minds eye the fourth and fifth dimensions and beyond. So was his disability a gift or a curse? I do believe that each one of us has a destiny but I also believe that destiny will only take you half way there you have to chart the rest of the way yourself. Also it is hard to judge a book when you are half way through. Sometimes you have to allow the situation to pass before all of the lessons or the reasons are revealed. The most important thing I have learned is before I start any endeavor I will set a higher reason for doing it what I mean by that is do it for some reason more than personal gain. Then relinquish control and work hard but surrender to the unknown and welcome the challenges that are ahead. The Buddhist say it best... If you want to make God laugh tell him all your plans! Wishing you a great new year.
Answer for Shuandalyn.
Shuandalyn Writes...
Hiya Jay! How are you? I hope you had a great Thanksgiving if you celebrate it!
My questions are:
Since you are a screenwriter, is there a timetable for writing screenplays?
What exactly does screenwriting entail developing characters?
Do you have to research a topic before writing a screenplay?
Thanks for your time Jay! Love ya! Peace!
Jay Writes...
Hi Shuandalyn, Nesh Ta Gol Teh(How is it with you?)
Screen writing is an art form. When you write a novel you have no boundaries but a screen play must tell the story you want to tell in about 105 pages, that is the standard nowadays. You can write longer plays but if you want people to read them than the length of your story is as important as the content. I usually write a synopsis of the story I want to tell. It is only a guide or a vague out line. I try to write at least 3-5 pages a day, if I get in the zone than I write till my creative juices run out. I read or watch or even travel to the locations and consume as much material as I can before I start and focus my mind on the topic completely. It is amazing when you focus on something, suddenly everything around you make sense in a different way and you will find your answers everywhere. I am better at story structure but I have worked hard to create characters that see the world from different view points and you will always need conflict to drive the scene forward. Ultimately a good Screen writer must think like a director and see the scenes in his minds eye and write in the genera that the story takes place. Funny writing for comedy and dramatic expressions for Drama and so on. I usually play a song that fits the scene I have in mind and try to write the type of films I like to see on the silver screen.
I wish you happiness in the new year.
Jay.
Answer for Courtney.
Sep 24th, 2004 - 9:44 PM
Courtney writes
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Ameri
Jay Tavare
Apr 27th, 2005 - 11:19 PM Re: Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare Part 2.
Courtney writes
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Americans about past wrongdoings. What do you think about this? Great? Too little, too late?
Jay Writes...
Hi Courtney, great question. I remember in the 2000 Sidney Olympics the Australian athletes wore shirts that simply read "Sorry." They were referring to the treatment of the Aboriginal people of their land. I was touched by this as I'm sure the world was. I feel our nation has had a deep wound on it's side for over 400 years and each generation has put a band aid on it and passed it on, hoping someone else would deal with it. But before healing can occur one must first acknowledge the wrong done. In the 1500s there was an estimated 20 million indigenous people living in America's, by the 1890s there was less than 250,000 left! They did not all pack up and go to Oklahoma. I know this sound harsh but there has been an American Holocaust that no one seems to acknowledge. In fact our government was the fist nation to use biological weapons on it's own people. Many tribes were wiped out without a single bullet being fired. Diseased blankets did a faster job. I could go on but it's no good to point fingers at anyone now. To acknowledge the fact that the American Indians gave up their way of life for the rest of us to live the way we do now and the prosperity that we have come to take for granted is the first step to start the healing that must occur for our Nation to evolve to the next level. If you see yourself as an American then you must learn the Spirit and the wisdom that the Indian elders have left us and never before has it been more necessary to walk the Spirit path and just see one Nation with no colors and no divisions. I wish all of you a happy holidays. Enjoy the Magic the exists among your families.
Jay.
Answer For Niani.
Niani Askes...
Question(s):
Hello Jay, I noticed in one of your responses you spoke about how hard life is on "The Rez" and I don't know if you realize this, but it sounds pretty much like life in "Da Hood"...the two are strikingly similar (diabetes, obesity, suicide, homicide, incarceration rate, substance abuse, domestic violence, etc...) Have you been involved in or would you consider being involved with efforts (not pushing one here) to open dialogue between the two communities (AI & AA) in an effort to curb/cease the continued social deterioration of our 2 groups?
Second part if I may be so bold as to steal some bandwidth...
I also noticed that you did Track & Field back in the day, I did as well...back in the day. I am still an avid fan of the sport, coaching kids as well as attending big meets when I get the chance. Have you heard of the Penn Relays? If so, did you ever run there? Also, what do you think about the current problems with America's sprinters (steroids) and their so-so performance in this year's Olympics?
PS
When will you be on the east coast??
Jay Writes...
Hello Niani, it is true, the Getto's and slums are the same all over the world. As we sit tonight eating possibly our third meal, let us not forget that over half the worlds population go hungry, 'cause there is not enough food for everyone. A dialogue between the Rez and D'hood sounds interesting but both sides need help from others and also by helping themselves. It is hard to be inspired when all around is misery and despair. I do what I can regarding going to talk with the kids as I believe through them we must keep the Dream alive, that all Dreams are attainable and never let that belief be forgotten.
The African Americans and the American Indians have much in common now and in history and a film like Unbowed highlights some of that unwritten history.
I never ran in Penn Relays but did run several middle distance Relay's competition in Europe(4x1500m). I also love to watch Track and Field, there is not enough on TV. I watched most of the Olympics in HD. Loved it. Our Athletes are truly the best trained and some of the best specimens I have ever seen. The
100m Dash Final's was the fastest in History with the 5 top finishers under 9.90! Although Maurice Green missed his mark it was an unforgettable final and the build up was dynamic.
I don't think there will ever be completely drug free games. It is the nature of human beings to push the limits and in doing so some will do whatever it takes to win. Marion Jones was as much a victim of the bad press as she was from not being in her best shape but she will be back. She is still the only women to win five medals in one Summer Olympics.
I have read they are now using a procedure called Gene Doping, where they use a virus to host whatever they want and they can injected the virus directly into the muscle. For example if you want the Quad's to twitch faster you can program the virus to carry that gene enhancer to the muscle and it's virtually undetectable!
Having said all of that for the first time since 1988 less world records have been broken in Track & Field because of the stricter drug testing, the athletes are finally catching up to the drug enhanced performances of that Olympics.
The future looks promising as US Athletes dominate the world once again.
I don't know when I be back on the East Coast but know I will be back. I love NY.
PS. Have a great Birthday and don't worry about my share of the cake.
JT.
Answer For Fontenel
Jay you are a very fit person maybe you can help me with this. I consider my self a healthy person don't smoke nor drink (alcohol), well my eating habits can beg the differ. I try to eat healthy but sometime I eat on the run. I hit the gym, I do good to stay in shape. But I want to flatten my stomach more and shape up my arms. I do crunches all they do is hurt my back. I have brought the AB cruncher and it's collecting dust (don't waste your time) I don't want to lift heavy weights because I don't want to walk around looking like a man. Is there a program that can help a person like me. Any suggestions. Thank you in advance...Peace Fontenel..
Jay Writes...
Hi Fontenel, let me start by saying that in your line of work stress is on a level that most people will never know. I know I have sat in the back seat of a Police car and watched the LAPD in their daily grind. Because of the stress your body produces Sertonem(spelling)? A hormone that increases body fat.
The trick is to find your body type and eat according to your daily activity. You cannot spot reduce, like only lose the fat on the stomach. The abdominal muscles only show when the body fat is under 8%, but there are ways to achieve that.
Rule #1. Watch the carbs! No matter how fit one is, if you consume more carbs than the body can handle in one sitting your body will bloat. So watch the Breads, Pastas, Potatoes, and any sugar loaded foods. You must read the labels. You want foods that are low in sugar and sodium and high in protein and potassium. The Fat is necessary in our food so don't worry too much about the non fat diets. We need fat for the healthy nervous system.
Rule #2. Eat foods that are alive. What I mean by that is stay away from canned or over processed foods. Eat more vegetables and fruits, they contain water and our bodies are over 75% water so is the Earth. Water is life so drink it and eat foods that contain it.
Rule #3. Eat your largest meal earlier in the day. Even if you want a stake eat it for Break fast or lunch and never for dinner. Our bodies have three cycles: Consumption, Digestion and Secretion and as the sun sets the body clock changes our metabolism and we must stay in tune with the cycles of our Planet. Follow the old saying: Eat breakfast by yourself, Lunch with a friend and give your dinner to your enemy.
Rule #4. Stay active, more important than pumping weights is to move our bodies that are designed for motion. The human body is not meant to sit 8 hours a day and stair at a monitor but if that's what you have to do than you still have 16 hours more to move it.
The fitter you are the more energy you will have.
I find running the best fat burner but if you cannot run, cycle or do a spin class or go out and dance your ass off. LOL.
Rule #4. Keep it simple. What I mean is if you want to eat chicken or fish or meat then eat it with a salad, it's better for your digestion than if you eat it with rice or potato or pasta. Now you can have them too but wait a few hours before you eat again.
Finally if you make a fist, that is the size of your upper stomach, so eat less food per sitting. This is one of the biggest problems that our nation faces. We are a nation of SUPER SIZE and it's time to eat enough for that sitting and not for the whole day.LOL.
I have had the pleasure of working with some of the worlds best Trainers and dietitians and what I share with you is a guide line. It's up to you to find what works for your body chemistry as no two people are alike when it come to their bodies.
Hope this will help and once again let the rage go what you did was the highest form of love... Compassion and you must also have that for the poor Mother who is so lost to do what she did.
Stay strong, Nantl-lass.
JT.
Because you are so particular about which movie roles you'll take, I was wondering what is your motivation or reason for deciding to play the Devil in the upcoming movie The Christian?
Jay Writes...
Hi Tossie, nice to see you are still around.LOL
I did turn down many Martial Arts roles after I did StreetFighter. Although it was money in the bank I felt it would have established me as a Martial Artist and that was not why I'm in this business. I had to fight to get recognized as a dramatic Actor and to be in films along side the one and only Meryl Streep and the amazing Cate Blanchett. I do not like to repeat myself in films even though that is exactly what Hollywood does to Actors as soon as they do one type of role well. Like Stallone only as Rocky or Rambo. I realize I have played several Indian roles in a row but they are all different from each other and I did not feel pigeon holed.
My decision to play The Devil was first because I like the book Lost Secrets of Sacred Ark and after meeting Laurence Gardner and spending some time with him I was impressed with his esoteric knowledge.
The Devil was the most beautiful Angel who thought he was Gods equal and his vaninty caused God to dispell him from Heaven. I believe sometimes we learn more form the Dark side than we do from the light. I see myself as a story teller and when you tell a story that makes people think and even discuss their beliefs it's a step in the right direction. It is said that the doors to heaven and hell are adjacent and the doors are unmarked. One man's heaven is another's hell.
I have not chosen to do this Film to disrespect any one or any religion and after it is all said and done, it's still only a Movie and it is there to entertain and provoke thought. Mel Gibsons Passion of Christ was labeled as anti Semitic but the message of his film was about forgiving those who persecute you.
I am journeying into the dark side of myself so don't mess with me sweet heart for the next few months. YOOOHHHAAAAAA... LOL.
Message: G'day Jay! How are ya mate!
This first question relates to the days of old when Crazy Horse was the great leader, Sitting Bull was the great chief and Geronimo was no where to be found
{LOL} OK here's the question, when I look at old photos of Indians I noticed none of them had facial hair, why is that? is because they couldn,t grow beards and mo's or was it a cultural thing, if they shaved what did they use, Hey! not that I'm into hairy faces just curious, so don't go growing hair on your face or I'll be over there with the wax and wax strips OUCH! {LOL}
Here's another one, Do any Indains tribes of today still live their tradional tribal way of life, living in Tipees, dressing in tradional Indian attire ect.. Some Aboriginal tribes do live the tribal way of life deep in the Outback, just another curios Q.
This is most important of all
For what it's really worth,I am a truly loyal, devoted, dedicated die-hard fan of yours and I love you so much, Ok I've rambled on enough, here's some hugs and kisses from me
How's MO Mo, pat for me and give him bone
luv ya mate
Skippy
Jay Writes...
Hello Skippy, or should I say a very Happy Birth Day to you. You have raised a good question. Most Indian Tribes shaved off any hair from their bodies, this included even the eye brows in some of the plain tribes (Lakhota or Pawnee) Although American Indians as a people are not that hairy, some people argue this as a proof of the Migration of the Mongols across the frozen north and into the North America. I believe that some folks were already here and yes people probably walk across and the tribes may have mixed with the indigenous people of the Turtle Island.(USA)
But there are many tribes that did have facial hair. In doing my research for Cold Mountain I found most of the Cherokee's in the 1800s wore a thin mustache and cut their hair into a bob and even wore turbans.
So did the Seminoles and few other Tribes that were in the Mid to South West areas. In some cases Warriors wore hair extension as the belief was the thicker and longer the hair the more power the individual had. In fact some of the Apache leaders did have facial hair and to this day the Stereotypical Indian Images that is planted in our minds eye by the inaccuracy that Hollywood presented in it's films. I have many old photographs that you may never recognize as American Indians, but they are. As far as Tribes living in traditional ways. The answer is yes and no. The Rez life is harsh and our people face great challenges, from Unemployment to drug abuse and homicide and even suicide as young as 10 year olds. Most tribes have ceremonies and events that the People dress traditionally Like the Puberty Dance for the coming of age of every Apache women, signifying her transition from a young girl into adulthood. No, you will not see anyone walking around in a full headdress unless he is still drunk from the night before.LOL.
Hi Jay,
I love to read, (not reading anything right now) but i'm curious to know ....
"What book or books have you read that have inspired you"?.
See this is a easy one. Outside of the obvious questions I would like to ask. I'm behaving this time.
Thank you in advance.
Jay Writes...
Hello WinterLibra, Your name has a good vibe to it. Libra is also a fellow Fire sign and supposedly my opposite, Aries.
I have always been attracted to the Unknown. As I believe real knowledge is like pure Gold, it's real value is directly related to it's rarity. When I discovered Ouspensky and Gurdjeff and their teachings regarding fragments of the unknown teachings it really triggered a deep passion within me that has been burning ever since. The book The Fourth Way and the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying are two books that come to mind. I also have had a real pleasure of meeting some of the elders and leaders in the Native community from all tribes and if you are patient with them the wealth of knowledge some of them possess is staggering. Each day is the birth of new possibilities and every one of us must start again and face the challenges that humbled us yesterday with a fresh look and ask the questions that we have taken for granted again.
What's your earliest childhood memory?
I'd be interested to know.
Jay writes...
Hello DMS... I guess DMS could stand for "Don't Mess with the Sista". LOL.
I guess our memory works best when an event is unusual or has a shock value that makes an impression. We remember pictures and not words.
I remember sitting by a shallow pool when I was about three and half and a one and half year old girl was left in my care, don't ask me how that is possible but stranger thing do happen when adults are in charge. I remember she had her dippers on and as she played at the edge of the water, it flowed beneath her and she slid into the pool. She started to drown floating head down in the water. I ran as fast as I could towards the house to get her Mom but something in my young mind stopped me half way. Somehow I knew even if I could make it to the house which was not too far, still the mother had to run back and I felt she would not make it in time. I turned and ran back and jumped in. The water was up to my neck and the floor was slippery but I summoned all the power that I had and was able to put my head on her belly and push her out of the pool. I have no idea how or why I made does choices but I knew I had saved her life and I felt good about my childish bravery.
Naëlle from france
Jan 4th, 2008 - 2:49 PM Re: Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Hi Jay !
I really love your mind and what you think about human's soul....
When you say that it is easier to punish than to forgive , i can say i feel the same .
I think people could get better if others bring them love . You're this type of other person . For me you're the right man who has find his way . The perfect " Citizen of earth" .... lol
You lived in Europe and i wanted to know where ? And which languages can you speak ? I wanna know it because I'm from france .
I hope you'll answer me .
With all my love,
N .
Running Red Fox (Forum Hostess)
Jan 4th, 2008 - 4:05 PM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare - Hi Naëlle from france
Hello Naëlle and welcome. So glad you read some of ' answers to us Please feel free to stop by anytime and I hope you get to read the rest of his Q&A on this Fan Forum and Q&A Page.
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Running Red Fox (Forum Hostess)
Jan 7th, 2008 - 9:22 AM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Jay Writes
Jay Tavare... Who is he?
So many have tried to describe me lately, so I thought I have a go myself.
After all who knows me best than the observer who has traveled with me all along.
I've never been the type to try to define myself, I've always thought of myself as a Citizen of Earth, in fact my name JAY comes from the much older Latin name Gaia or the protector of Earth.
I believe we are one race, the human race and as different as we may look from one another if you peel the surface the emotional content is the same.
We all feel love and pain and we are inspired by acts of bravery and self sacrifice, we are really more a like than we like to admit.
As an actor I see myself as a process, always changing and re inventing myself . I know some have described me as multi ethnic but that only applies to me because I was raised in more than one culture and not because I have more than one blood in my veins.
I have live in Europe and Asia and America's I have traveled all over the world and spend time learning about other cultures, I speak several languages beside the Native languages I know. I did most of this before I became an actor which is really only an artistic out let for my soul and there is so much more to who I am than my profession.
I was put in a boarding school when I was very young, my sponsored parents, which is what I call them, as I did not live with them but they paid my bills till I landed a sport scholarship to my European private school.
I was always interested in Science and Biology & Bio chemistry and how the human body and mind works so I thought I would become a Dr. and I studied to be one.
But I found my stage in sport arena's where the sound of excitement from the audience would push me to rise to the occasion and perform my very best.
This passion lead me to theater and national commercials and I was in a band or two who did some gigs all over Europe and I did win the World Free Style Dance Championship with my Acrobatic break dancing electric body popping routine which for the mid 80's was brand new and I can honestly say I was there at the birth of B Boys and hip hop and I was a head of my time.
My Indian life came to me as I reached into American history and found so many stories that were left out of the history books. I did extensive research for each of my roles and as I became the characters I portrayed I took a piece of them with me.
I am not a spoke person for any tribe or race and I feel I represent all people of color in Hollywood and not just Indians to which I have a close heritage.
I try to help others but I do not claim saint hood and I do not want to be a role model although if others follow me that is okay by me.
I base my life on what I have learned. I have had many great teachers in my life but my best asset has been my never ending thirst for the unknown and intangible...
To be continued....
Running Red Fox (Forum Hostess)
Feb 5th, 2008 - 6:15 AM Weekly Answers By Jay Tavare.
Hello everyone, below is the very first Q&A Session that took place on this Fan Forum back in 2004.
Happy Reading
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Jay Tavare’s Q&A from 2004.
Posted by Sage
Jul 20, 04 - 10:07AM QUESTIONS:
My Question for Jay is:
WHICH ROLE YOU'VE PLAYED IS YOUR FAVORITE TO DATE?
IS IT MATTHEW OSCEOLA, or SWIMMER or KAYITAH or VEGA or one of your new upcoming roles?
~ Sage
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 2:31PM Answer for Sage.
Jay Writes
I try to do parts that as soon as I read the script something in my soul is moved by it. I have enjoyed each and every one of the character I have portrayed but Kayitah was very rewarding for the chance to play an Apache as they were in their full glory. A dream part in a wounderful film. And working with Elbys who was the Great Grand Daughter of Cochise and the Location New Mexico and Santa Fe only added to the Magic. Having Ron Howard as your boss and Cate and Tommy as co-workers was not bad either. And finally the Native cast was amazing including Eric's performance and Simon Bakers who played my son both brilliant actors.
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Posted by Rowena
Jul 20th, 2004 - 10:57AM Re: QUESTIONS:
My question for Jay is:
How do your prepare yourself for the character you play? Are you a method actor where you stay in that character 24 hours a day and live in that character's personality? Or are you able to step into that character's shoes but at the end of the day let the character go?
Thanks!
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 2:20PM Answer for Rowena.
Jay Writes
I approach each role by as much research as possible to me getting ready for a part is a tremendous opportunity to learn and to live another life. The process fuels my passion. But once I have a back story and I usually do this for the larger parts. I create who this person was, his home his family the behavior that got him to were he is in the film. But once the shooting begins I have fun with it and let the organic process of film making guide me. No, I do not stay in character all day although in a highly emotional scene I will stay with that emotion longer.
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Posted by Toosie
Jul 20th, 2004 - 6:12PM Re: QUESTIONS:
1. Jay, after your vision quest, were you given an Indian name? If so, what is it?
2. Jay, have you participated in the Sun Dance? Is the Sun Dance only practiced within the Sioux Nation or do other tribes participate in it?
3. Jay, I am pleased to hear that you will be on a panel to preserve Indian dialects. Is there going to be anyway for those of us who may be interested in learning one of those languages to be able to take a course?
4. Jay, you have a most unique voice, I was just wondering what dialect that is?
5. Jay, how do you stay “so centered” in a business that is all about “me?”
6. Jay, do you hold to any one faith? If so, what is it?
7. Jay do you know why so many Native Americans continue to live on the Rez with poverty being so low and jobs so scarce.
8. Jay, do you know if the Treaties that were set a long time ago are still being honored today? (I am from Michigan and we have a variety of treaties within the state, whether it is property rights or education. At the University of Michigan, if you are at least 25% Native American and have registered as such, you are supposed to receive free tuition. A few years ago, my friend thought she was going to use that opportunity, but was denied. She tried to force the issue and was told that that treaty no longer guarantees a free education.)
9.Jay, how many Native American tribes are there today and how many are now extinct?
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 3:11PM Answer for Toosie.
Jay Writes
Hi Tossie,You normally do not speak of your Indian name unless in ceremonies but I will say my Apache name means:
"He Who Remembers The Past"
Yes, the Sun Dance is a Plains Indian tradition mostly the Lakota's and the Cheyenne's and a few other northern tribes would participate in it, it is still done once a year in the summer.
My voice is my own as I have lived in so many places and I consider myself a Citizen of the Earth.
I respect all religions as they are different chapters of the same book. All enlightened beings come to similar conclusion and it is usually found in solitude where you find both God and self.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Skippy
Jul 20th, 2004 - 11:07PM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hi Jay,
How many Indian languages do you speak and which ones are they?
I hear you can ride the a** of a horse, have you been riding for a long time, did you take lessons, do you ride bareback? If ever you get to the land Down Under
maybe you can teach me{lol}
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 4:27PM Answer for Skippy.
Jay Writes
I am a good mimic and can learn things very quickly and make it look like I have done so all my life and I have Spoken a few different Indian dialects in my films, I think they are mentioned on the web somewhere. I am not fluent in any of them although I'm continuing to work on my Athobascan which is the language family of the Apache's and Navajo's. Inde and Dineh.
I have been riding since I was in single digit years and yes I can bare back and did learn a few new tricks on the set of The Missing as we had several of the best riders I have ever seen. Rod, Judson and Dutch to name a few. Great guys with crazy skills.
BTW I loved Australia and would love to go back to make another film there. Who knows one day I'll be back.
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Posted by Lani
Jul 21st, 2004 - 3:11AM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hi Jay
i'd like to answer 2 good question's!
what's it like to be a proud Native american actor & person too ,
what made you interested in the role of Street-fighter Vega
?from Lani,
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 4:05PM Answer for Lani.
Jay Writes
Hi Lani I see myself as a human being first and just like everyone else my heritage is part of who I am but to be proud without substance can be dangerous so I keep my feet firmly on the Earth and shoot for the stars.
VEGA Was the coolest of the StreetFighter Characters and as soon as I read the script I could see him in my head a flamboyant fighter that puts on the show it's not just to defeat your opponent but to teach them a lesson too. He was fast like a mongoose making the Cobra pay with each strike, and I had to fight for the way I looked in the film because the Director had different Ideas for VEGA.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Samantha Inoue Harte
Jul 20th, 2004 - 4:34PM Re: QUESTIONS:
Hmmmm....I have a few questions. I hope that they get answered.
1) how does it make you feel to know that hundreds of men and women adore you enough to regularly post on this forum about your looks, contemplate your age, and religiously watch your films? You have to know that you are very handsome...but have you ever wished that you could just be an average man and not be adored because of your "star" title, for your money, or for your good looks? Has it been hard to find someone who would like you for who you are and not for all the above?
2) Could you tell us if you are feeling better ever since Cheyenne passed, if you are getting along well? Is Mohawk doing alright? Was he phased at all? Would you ever consider ever getting another puppy in the future or would it be too soon. And how did you come to own Mohawk? And what attracted you to specifically Wolfdogs and Sammies (I like that nickname)
3) If you could give advice to a person who is currently pursuing an acting career who is also of mixed race (I'm Eurasian and of indiginous japanese Ainu descent), what would your best advice be?
4) The previous message that you had posted concerning Cheyenne gave off a sense of buddhist spirituality. There are many branches of Buddhism and if you were, which branch are you? If not, could you go into detail about your personal beliefs about life?
There are so many more questions that I would want to ask...but some of those may be inappropriate. so of course, i'll be a good girl and not bombard you with more. grin. but if any one of these questions could be answered I would do another flip of joy. grin. I'd probably do cartwheels all up and down the road if you did.
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 5:09PM Answer for Samantha Inoue Harte.
Jay Writes
Ever since I won the World Dance Championship I have been on a stage with eyes watching me. At first the fame seemed OH.. so seductive but as I have grown as a man and as a Human being I have come to except who I am and forget about the fame and money, instead to follow my heart and always do the best that I can and then surrender to what is to come. I feed off the energy of my audience but I do not feed that energy to my ego rather I direct it to being more creative and giving back to the hungry eyes that watch me. I was born with a gift as each and every one of you are too. The tricks is to find what it is that you are good at and then find a way to make a life style of it and even better make money from it and help others along the way. It all starts with finding your passion, follow that and the rest will come.
I do not see myself as a STAR. I'm a thespian and a story teller and through my work I hope to inspire, educate and entertain, if I can achieve that in a film or a book or a screenplay I have done my job.
The passing of Cheyenne has been hard on both Mohawk an I but we must go on as the grief is the body's way of healing you from the inside. Now I feel stronger and ready to make all of you my darling fans proud of me.
BTW thank you for your animation of Cheyenne you are a bright and talented young lady and do not be afraid to leave the nest as even the mother Eagle pushes the young Eagles out of the nest she knows it is for the good of them that they must fly.
Sammies are a very special dogs they were the dogs of the Mongolians and the bond with the tribal people has left certain personality traits that are unique to them. Also the Wolf one of the most misunderstood creatures of the Mother Earth is not unlike the Indians who got wiped out.
Jay Tavare
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Posted by Rose
Jul 20th, 2004 - 12:51PM Re: QUESTIONS:
My questions for Jay are:
From your first role as Vega in the Streetfighter movie to your current projects, what convinced you to take each of your roles, and can you explain in detail the training/research you took for each role?
Would you ever again do any projects for the younger (and young at heart!) generations?
If one of your fans wanted to learn Native traditions (tribal healing dances, making Dreamcatchers et cetera), would you 'tutor' them and/or would you refer them to your tribes?
Can you submit some sound clips from some of your projects to this site? Including your upcoming ones, of course!
How do you feel about us fans worshipping you *this* much?
We can't wait to hear from you, Jay!
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 26th, 2004 - 10:14AM Answer for Rose.
Jay Writes
Hi Rose if I was to answer all your questions, it will be a book so I will talk about Street Fighter since I know you are a huge fan.
VEGA was a great opportunity for me to show case my physical skills. I learned from the British Actors when you have the characters walk you have the character so VEGA was a fun and colorful character. I trained very hard for this film as I knew I was supposed to be the Greatest Cage fighter since Iron fist who was Wes Studi's character who was my boss. When I met Benny the Jet who is a legend in the Martial Arts World we quickly bonded and he allowed me to use my dance and Acrobatic skills to create a style for VEGA and believe me fighting with a steel claw and a mask that was hard to breath in was not easy. I also enjoyed shooting in Thailand and Australia and Canada very much. I would do a picture for the younger generation as I don't see myself as old. The best way to learn Indian Art is to just do it, as all Indian art or any art for that fact is an expression of the Spirit and it is already in you.
I am privilege to have so much love from my fans and without the fans being a performing Artist has no meaning.
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Posted vy Elizabeth Lampert
Jul 21st, 2004 - 8:40 AM Re: QUESTIONS:
Native artwork and culture is such an interesting subject.
Did the Apache people ever make pottery or create any kind of specialized jewelry?
And did the Navajo ever grow corn?
Posted by Jay Tavare
Jul 22nd, 2004 - 3:24PM Answer for Elizabeth Lampert.
Jay Writes
Hi Elizabeth, the answer is not really, The Apaches did some form of art but it was the Dineh Nation who learned from the Zuni's the wonderful silver work and carpet and basket weaving. The Navajo's did grow corn, they were sheep hearders as well and more peacefull than the Apache's who roamed and raided more often. BTW Dineh is the correct name for the Navajo's as most Indian tribes have a different name for themselves. Usually translated to mean The People. The Apache's were called Inde.
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