Post by Totems4jt on Jul 9, 2008 14:43:52 GMT -5
Jay Tavare
Jun 4, 05 - 5:14 PM In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle Writes
I'm in need of some special Jaybird uplifting, extra positive energy, prayers, I'll take anything you got in a good way.
Tomorrow, Little Peep/little Warrior graduates from Middle school. His dad who we just spent a good time with a month ago in NY promised him months ago that he would attend, even up until a few days ago. Well guess what - he has suddenly gone incognito, and hasn't been heard from, won't answer his phone, can't be reached etc.... Could it be that he is going to diss out on our son - probably. This is his pattern, when there is something he doesn't want to do, he'll disappear - the coward.
It probably wouldn't be so bad, if there wasn't a mom, dad & child banquet right before the actual ceremony. Some of the other children who do not, for whatever reason have either parent had arranged stand -ins. It is just too late for that as most of our family, friends will only be attending the actual ceremony because they were told that his dad would finally be making an appearance. He has never attended any of our son's school related functions, and my boy has taken a lot of flack, name-calling etc... because of it. I think it would have been easier to have just told people that his father didn't exist then to have them know how un-caring he can be.
So tomorrow, as my son, and I sit at the graduate,mom &_______ banquet, and as the questions undoubtedly come, please keep my son, and me in your thoughts. He is being a great little man about this, but I know he is hurt that once again his so-called father has let him down. His father does not, but soon will realize that now that he is no longer a child, his feelings can not be bought, that his callous act has inevitably changed whatever their relationship could have been forever.
Dazz
Jay Writes
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:54 PM Re: I am there for him
Hi Dazz. Tell your son if I could be there for him I would! I will sent him a special shot just for him and tell him sometimes you are going to need him to be the man in both of your life and empower him to realize even though he is young in age his spirit is strong and you need him to know that this night is about him and not anyone else. I was in similar position when I was young and I remember one sports day which took place once a year I won every event I competed in and as I stood there receiving my trophies there was no one there to share my glory with. Every other kid had their family standing around but I had all the medals. LOL. Tell him you need him to be a man for you and for himself and focus on having fun for this is a special day with or without his father. Take care and tell him I am sending him my spirit guides to protect him and give him strength.
Jay.
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Toosie
Jun 4th, 2005 - 7:00 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle this is tough! I will keep you and little peeps in my prayers. Stay strong.
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Souli
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:06 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazzle,
I'm so sorry for you and your son - to have to deal with this at his age is tough.
Is there a male relative or friend of the family who is close to your son, who could stand in at the ceremony and the banquet?
My thoughts are with you!
souli_butterfly@yahoo.com
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Barbara
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:09 PM Re: Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle, Please tell the K-I-D hi for me and I`ll be sitting on whichever shoulder of his that he chooses. He is a nifty young man.
__________________________________________________
Nona
Jun 5th, 2005 - 2:22 AM Re: We support you both
Dazz, I understand too well what you are going through with the absent dad situation. I feel your pain and your son's too. I was there and my Mom was just as incensed as you have every right to be. You can be angry forever, which will tear you apart or you can say, "Hey this hurts, but we will get over this." Take this experience as a life lesson to help strengthen your relationship with your son and to teach him to be better father for his children. From the short time that I have talked to you, I can see that you are strong and are a positive influence over him. You love him dearly and wish that you can shield him from this pain. But you know that is not the reality. Disappointments come and go. Even family disappoints you, but he is the next generation and can break that chain. Love and peace to you both. Hold your head up high and go to the event. Bring a male friend or relative if you have one.If not, don't agonize about it. Forgive but do not forget. It is healing. Life is too precious. If all else fails. at Dad
Jay, your words as always are more precious than gold. A positive male influence is just what he needs to complete the circle to his path as a warrior. He will be a better man for it. Very noble of you to express your concern for someone you do not know or never met. You never cease to amaze me. That's what we love about you. Never change. No doubt he will be strong.
to Daniel, Congrats!!
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Teen Warrior- Dazzle's son
Jun 6th, 2005 - 11:22 AM To Jay from graduation boy
thankyou Jay for sending me the helpful message in my time need though my father was not there it still was a good graduation, and many of my family and friends were there, like my cousins, or martial arts instructors. after the serimony was over( i cant spell worth crap) i did the usual stuff like turn in the robes, say my goodbye's, take some pictures with some of the FINE girls, u know stuff like that. Once again thankyou for the encouragement that you gave me
and for sending your spirit guides by the way i am keeping the wolf.:lol: and the only thing that i wanted and did not get for my graduation was to get my chance to spar with U!!!, and see who's kungfu is better but i will get my chance soon enough.( me laughing monyicly) Teen warrior out yall
PEACE :karate: :ninja: :tiger:
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MargotCash
Jun 7th, 2005 - 12:02 PM to Teen Warrior
TW,
How gracious of you to reply to THE CHIEF. Your good manners will serve you well in life.
Congratulations on your graduation! I hope your high school years bring great opportunities.
Best wishes,
Margot
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Fontenel
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:34 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hello Dazz:
You know that Little Warrior is my boy, I don't have a son but if I did he would be the perfect example of a great son. I love his playfulness, and how much he loves his mom...You have a great son and tell him to hold his head up high. Tell him to have a great time it's his day...Peace to you and Little Warrior...Fontenel
Hello Jay:
I can relate to your post, but it's not about us and thank you for being there for Little Warrior...You is a true role model...Your love comes across space and time..If I could turn back the hands of time, I would be there for you as you recieve you medal and honors..I'm proud of you for all you acheive. Never stop being Jay...You take care..Peace to you...Fontenel
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Niani
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:43 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazz,
I'm sending you and the baby a big hug. Keep strong sis!
___________________________________________________
Dazzle
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:54 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Jay, and site familia,
It was so sweet of you to respond, every little bit helps, especially in this situation.
Jay, your concern is especially touching. When I turned on the computer, and saw that you had taken the time to post to us; that endears you to me even more. I wish on your special day, this Batmom could've been there for you, as I sense your spirit will be there with us.
Tonight, I will print out your post, and tomorrow when we are on the way to the ceremonies, I will give it to him. To know that you thought enough of him to write will make him feel very special.
Beyond words, you are definitely Awesome Awesome Tavare...
Be Well,
Dazz
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Claire Valencia
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:00 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....- we are with you Dazz
Hi Dazz,
Tell Daniel he's the most important thing in your life. Tell him he's a prince and just the kind of man any mom would be proud of. Like we were discussing earlier-my kids have been in the same boat-my dauhgter for Middle School and High School and my son for Middle school and I suspect High School next year. My daughter Naomi even had a special Art Medallion Ceremony(last year)-received an award and was so beautiful that day. Her Dad was a "no show" after breaking a promise.
Jay has written you a beautiful message and I truly beleive his spirit guides will carry both of you through tomorrow. Make tomorrow a beautiful and know that children are amazingly resilient, learn from their experiences and grow up to be wonderful human beings-Your little peep is a prime example,my 2 wonderful blesings known as my children are and last but not least our friend and chief-Jay.
Luv ya Dazz and give Daniel a big hug from me,
Claire
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MargotCash
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:17 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle,
My heart goes out to your Little Warrior. I'm sure tomorrow will be rough for you, too, but if you stay happy and upbeat for him, you can pull him through. He's lucky to have you.
Take care,
Margot
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Winterlibra
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:51 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz,
I will keep you and Little Warrior in my thoughts and prayers tonight. Tomorrow my be tough but please know that we will be there with you both in spirit. Try to enjoy the day and make it as special as you can for the both of you.
To Jay,
The only thing that I can say to you is that you're one of a kind and that your heart and soul is big.
____________________________________________________
dawn
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:57 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
sorry to hear that things are not going as planned. please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. $%$%$%$%$%$% get over the blues vibes coming your way. hope all goes well just the same. l/y dawn
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Shygirl
Jun 5th, 2005 - 1:00 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hey Dazz,
Your post really struck a cord with me I watched my cousins go through this when we were growing up and I always felt so helpless.
But let your son know that we are all proud of him and he is never alone. He should know that there is a man who cares enough and he has never even layed eyes on him.
Tell him congratulations the next four years will bring him many interesting time, joys oh and he won't be a little peep in the end he will be big peep LOL. Welcome to the start of manhood.
And what a man he will be.
Shygirl
____________________________________________________
Christi
Jun 5th, 2005 - 9:26 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hey Dazz,
Sorry I'm late...
...but today as little peep becomes BIG D, on his very special day, I hope he will make a pack with himself that this is what "I will not do to my kids." When his father starts getting old he will say to his adult son "Why don't you ever call or come and see me?" By then it will be to late.
You are a wonderful person, and you have raised a wonderful son, who although he will never forget the important things his father missed, will learn from this what is important and become a better man. Tell D I said CONGRADULATIONS, and that all your Site Sisters, and our Site brotha Jay, are very proud to know of such an excellent young man.
Christi
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Running Red Fox
Jun 5th, 2005 - 9:59 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz...
Your son is lucky to have you and everyone else who is there to support him. Please tell him congratulations for me.
Hi Jay, that was wonderful of you to give words of encourgement. Sometimes it doesn't hurt as bad when one learns that they are not the only one who went thru this and there are others who are around and are willing to support them.
Love to all..
____________________________________________________
stefanie
Jun 5th, 2005 - 11:06 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle,
please know that i will be thinking of you and your precious little man. You are in my prayers.
___________________________________________________
MargotCash
Jun 5th, 2005 - 1:29 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazz,
How did it go?
Take care,
Margot
____________________________________________________
India "Black Sky"
Jun 5th, 2005 - 11:50 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz,
when you get a chance let us know how it went. i pray all was well.
God Bless,
____________________________________________________
Dazzle
Jun 6th, 2005 - 11:36 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift.... post-graduation
Thanks to one and all,
The Graduation Ceremony was real nice, and the Banquet turned out okay. Teen Warrior ( formerly littlePeep.warrior) did really well, and held his head up high through it all. I'm glad we had so much in Spirit and prayers on our side.
Jay did more for my son's frame of mind yesterday then his own father, who we have yet to hear from , but as we even learn from our children, Teen Warrior was okay, and so I had to become okay too. He told me I really got to stop the 'little peep' stuff since he is taller than me, consequently he has become 'Teen Warrior'. I know as someone said, you do not forget these events, but I hope it will empower him to be the 'better man', where his dad is concerned.
It's nice to know I can always count on Jay and my jaybird familia .
Dazz
____________________________________________________
Toosie
Jun 6th, 2005 - 12:47 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle:
I am so glad to hear that you and Teen Warrior had a good graduation day! It is always nice to have a "Big Brother" figure looking out for him!
____________________________________________________
sh mo / blue Jay
Jun 6th, 2005 - 8:30 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dear Dazz & Teen Warrior of the Wolf Clan,
Sorry that this is late, but the best part of
it is that I can say YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!
and
and all those cheers and shouts that mom's do.
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAy!!
for Teen Warrior carrying himself so well and
with so much class. And way to go BatMom!!!!!
Glad for all the other friends and family that
showed up. And a special sending from Jay!!!
best to you two,
sharon
___________________________________________________
Miss Davis
Jun 7th, 2005 - 4:37 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dear Dazz,
I'm sorry to hear about Teen Warrior's situation. On the other hand, I'm glad everything went well and that TW held his head up high through it all. I know it was heart warming to see Jay respond like that. Obviously, he's a good man. Thank you, Dazz, for being a great "BatMom" for TW. I can only hope that he becomes the good husband and father that neither you or he didn't have.
Even in situations like this, there is something positive to be learned. Everyone's parents are always the perfect example for their children, whether or not they are present in their lives or not. A child's parents will always be the perfect example of: WHAT to do or WHAT NOT to do!!! Obviously, you are a wonderful example of what to do, as a good parent, for your son!
I wish both of you all the best!
Sincerely,
Miss Davis
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sami
Jun 7th, 2005 - 10:39 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
heya Dazzle! I just gave you a call....even with my voice sounding like a frog! I didn't get to this forum post until today! Oh gosh! I hope little peep is doing alright!
If I would've known sooner, I would've had the full metal alchemist vas give little peep a call again! I hope he's doing alright!
Give the boy a hug for me!
take care of yourself!
Cheers,
sami
Jun 4, 05 - 5:14 PM In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle Writes
I'm in need of some special Jaybird uplifting, extra positive energy, prayers, I'll take anything you got in a good way.
Tomorrow, Little Peep/little Warrior graduates from Middle school. His dad who we just spent a good time with a month ago in NY promised him months ago that he would attend, even up until a few days ago. Well guess what - he has suddenly gone incognito, and hasn't been heard from, won't answer his phone, can't be reached etc.... Could it be that he is going to diss out on our son - probably. This is his pattern, when there is something he doesn't want to do, he'll disappear - the coward.
It probably wouldn't be so bad, if there wasn't a mom, dad & child banquet right before the actual ceremony. Some of the other children who do not, for whatever reason have either parent had arranged stand -ins. It is just too late for that as most of our family, friends will only be attending the actual ceremony because they were told that his dad would finally be making an appearance. He has never attended any of our son's school related functions, and my boy has taken a lot of flack, name-calling etc... because of it. I think it would have been easier to have just told people that his father didn't exist then to have them know how un-caring he can be.
So tomorrow, as my son, and I sit at the graduate,mom &_______ banquet, and as the questions undoubtedly come, please keep my son, and me in your thoughts. He is being a great little man about this, but I know he is hurt that once again his so-called father has let him down. His father does not, but soon will realize that now that he is no longer a child, his feelings can not be bought, that his callous act has inevitably changed whatever their relationship could have been forever.
Dazz
Jay Writes
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:54 PM Re: I am there for him
Hi Dazz. Tell your son if I could be there for him I would! I will sent him a special shot just for him and tell him sometimes you are going to need him to be the man in both of your life and empower him to realize even though he is young in age his spirit is strong and you need him to know that this night is about him and not anyone else. I was in similar position when I was young and I remember one sports day which took place once a year I won every event I competed in and as I stood there receiving my trophies there was no one there to share my glory with. Every other kid had their family standing around but I had all the medals. LOL. Tell him you need him to be a man for you and for himself and focus on having fun for this is a special day with or without his father. Take care and tell him I am sending him my spirit guides to protect him and give him strength.
Jay.
____________________________________________________
Toosie
Jun 4th, 2005 - 7:00 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle this is tough! I will keep you and little peeps in my prayers. Stay strong.
____________________________________________________
Souli
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:06 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazzle,
I'm so sorry for you and your son - to have to deal with this at his age is tough.
Is there a male relative or friend of the family who is close to your son, who could stand in at the ceremony and the banquet?
My thoughts are with you!
souli_butterfly@yahoo.com
____________________________________________________
Barbara
Jun 4th, 2005 - 8:09 PM Re: Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle, Please tell the K-I-D hi for me and I`ll be sitting on whichever shoulder of his that he chooses. He is a nifty young man.
__________________________________________________
Nona
Jun 5th, 2005 - 2:22 AM Re: We support you both
Dazz, I understand too well what you are going through with the absent dad situation. I feel your pain and your son's too. I was there and my Mom was just as incensed as you have every right to be. You can be angry forever, which will tear you apart or you can say, "Hey this hurts, but we will get over this." Take this experience as a life lesson to help strengthen your relationship with your son and to teach him to be better father for his children. From the short time that I have talked to you, I can see that you are strong and are a positive influence over him. You love him dearly and wish that you can shield him from this pain. But you know that is not the reality. Disappointments come and go. Even family disappoints you, but he is the next generation and can break that chain. Love and peace to you both. Hold your head up high and go to the event. Bring a male friend or relative if you have one.If not, don't agonize about it. Forgive but do not forget. It is healing. Life is too precious. If all else fails. at Dad
Jay, your words as always are more precious than gold. A positive male influence is just what he needs to complete the circle to his path as a warrior. He will be a better man for it. Very noble of you to express your concern for someone you do not know or never met. You never cease to amaze me. That's what we love about you. Never change. No doubt he will be strong.
to Daniel, Congrats!!
____________________________________________________
Teen Warrior- Dazzle's son
Jun 6th, 2005 - 11:22 AM To Jay from graduation boy
thankyou Jay for sending me the helpful message in my time need though my father was not there it still was a good graduation, and many of my family and friends were there, like my cousins, or martial arts instructors. after the serimony was over( i cant spell worth crap) i did the usual stuff like turn in the robes, say my goodbye's, take some pictures with some of the FINE girls, u know stuff like that. Once again thankyou for the encouragement that you gave me
and for sending your spirit guides by the way i am keeping the wolf.:lol: and the only thing that i wanted and did not get for my graduation was to get my chance to spar with U!!!, and see who's kungfu is better but i will get my chance soon enough.( me laughing monyicly) Teen warrior out yallPEACE :karate: :ninja: :tiger:
____________________________________________________
MargotCash
Jun 7th, 2005 - 12:02 PM to Teen Warrior
TW,
How gracious of you to reply to THE CHIEF. Your good manners will serve you well in life.
Congratulations on your graduation! I hope your high school years bring great opportunities.
Best wishes,
Margot
____________________________________________________
Fontenel
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:34 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hello Dazz:
You know that Little Warrior is my boy, I don't have a son but if I did he would be the perfect example of a great son. I love his playfulness, and how much he loves his mom...You have a great son and tell him to hold his head up high. Tell him to have a great time it's his day...Peace to you and Little Warrior...Fontenel
Hello Jay:
I can relate to your post, but it's not about us and thank you for being there for Little Warrior...You is a true role model...Your love comes across space and time..If I could turn back the hands of time, I would be there for you as you recieve you medal and honors..I'm proud of you for all you acheive. Never stop being Jay...You take care..Peace to you...Fontenel
____________________________________________________
Niani
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:43 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazz,
I'm sending you and the baby a big hug. Keep strong sis!
___________________________________________________
Dazzle
Jun 4th, 2005 - 9:54 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Jay, and site familia,
It was so sweet of you to respond, every little bit helps, especially in this situation.
Jay, your concern is especially touching. When I turned on the computer, and saw that you had taken the time to post to us; that endears you to me even more. I wish on your special day, this Batmom could've been there for you, as I sense your spirit will be there with us.
Tonight, I will print out your post, and tomorrow when we are on the way to the ceremonies, I will give it to him. To know that you thought enough of him to write will make him feel very special.
Beyond words, you are definitely Awesome Awesome Tavare...
Be Well,
Dazz
____________________________________________________
Claire Valencia
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:00 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....- we are with you Dazz
Hi Dazz,
Tell Daniel he's the most important thing in your life. Tell him he's a prince and just the kind of man any mom would be proud of. Like we were discussing earlier-my kids have been in the same boat-my dauhgter for Middle School and High School and my son for Middle school and I suspect High School next year. My daughter Naomi even had a special Art Medallion Ceremony(last year)-received an award and was so beautiful that day. Her Dad was a "no show" after breaking a promise.
Jay has written you a beautiful message and I truly beleive his spirit guides will carry both of you through tomorrow. Make tomorrow a beautiful and know that children are amazingly resilient, learn from their experiences and grow up to be wonderful human beings-Your little peep is a prime example,my 2 wonderful blesings known as my children are and last but not least our friend and chief-Jay.
Luv ya Dazz and give Daniel a big hug from me,
Claire
____________________________________________________
MargotCash
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:17 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle,
My heart goes out to your Little Warrior. I'm sure tomorrow will be rough for you, too, but if you stay happy and upbeat for him, you can pull him through. He's lucky to have you.
Take care,
Margot
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Winterlibra
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:51 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz,
I will keep you and Little Warrior in my thoughts and prayers tonight. Tomorrow my be tough but please know that we will be there with you both in spirit. Try to enjoy the day and make it as special as you can for the both of you.
To Jay,
The only thing that I can say to you is that you're one of a kind and that your heart and soul is big.
____________________________________________________
dawn
Jun 4th, 2005 - 10:57 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
sorry to hear that things are not going as planned. please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. $%$%$%$%$%$% get over the blues vibes coming your way. hope all goes well just the same. l/y dawn
____________________________________________________
Shygirl
Jun 5th, 2005 - 1:00 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hey Dazz,
Your post really struck a cord with me I watched my cousins go through this when we were growing up and I always felt so helpless.
But let your son know that we are all proud of him and he is never alone. He should know that there is a man who cares enough and he has never even layed eyes on him.
Tell him congratulations the next four years will bring him many interesting time, joys oh and he won't be a little peep in the end he will be big peep LOL. Welcome to the start of manhood.
And what a man he will be.
Shygirl
____________________________________________________
Christi
Jun 5th, 2005 - 9:26 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hey Dazz,
Sorry I'm late...
...but today as little peep becomes BIG D, on his very special day, I hope he will make a pack with himself that this is what "I will not do to my kids." When his father starts getting old he will say to his adult son "Why don't you ever call or come and see me?" By then it will be to late.
You are a wonderful person, and you have raised a wonderful son, who although he will never forget the important things his father missed, will learn from this what is important and become a better man. Tell D I said CONGRADULATIONS, and that all your Site Sisters, and our Site brotha Jay, are very proud to know of such an excellent young man.
Christi
____________________________________________________
Running Red Fox
Jun 5th, 2005 - 9:59 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz...
Your son is lucky to have you and everyone else who is there to support him. Please tell him congratulations for me.
Hi Jay, that was wonderful of you to give words of encourgement. Sometimes it doesn't hurt as bad when one learns that they are not the only one who went thru this and there are others who are around and are willing to support them.
Love to all..
____________________________________________________
stefanie
Jun 5th, 2005 - 11:06 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle,
please know that i will be thinking of you and your precious little man. You are in my prayers.
___________________________________________________
MargotCash
Jun 5th, 2005 - 1:29 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazz,
How did it go?
Take care,
Margot
____________________________________________________
India "Black Sky"
Jun 5th, 2005 - 11:50 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Hi Dazz,
when you get a chance let us know how it went. i pray all was well.
God Bless,
____________________________________________________
Dazzle
Jun 6th, 2005 - 11:36 AM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift.... post-graduation
Thanks to one and all,
The Graduation Ceremony was real nice, and the Banquet turned out okay. Teen Warrior ( formerly littlePeep.warrior) did really well, and held his head up high through it all. I'm glad we had so much in Spirit and prayers on our side.
Jay did more for my son's frame of mind yesterday then his own father, who we have yet to hear from , but as we even learn from our children, Teen Warrior was okay, and so I had to become okay too. He told me I really got to stop the 'little peep' stuff since he is taller than me, consequently he has become 'Teen Warrior'. I know as someone said, you do not forget these events, but I hope it will empower him to be the 'better man', where his dad is concerned.
It's nice to know I can always count on Jay and my jaybird familia .
Dazz
____________________________________________________
Toosie
Jun 6th, 2005 - 12:47 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dazzle:
I am so glad to hear that you and Teen Warrior had a good graduation day! It is always nice to have a "Big Brother" figure looking out for him!
____________________________________________________
sh mo / blue Jay
Jun 6th, 2005 - 8:30 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dear Dazz & Teen Warrior of the Wolf Clan,
Sorry that this is late, but the best part of
it is that I can say YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!
and
and all those cheers and shouts that mom's do.
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAy!!
for Teen Warrior carrying himself so well and
with so much class. And way to go BatMom!!!!!
Glad for all the other friends and family that
showed up. And a special sending from Jay!!!
best to you two,
sharon
___________________________________________________
Miss Davis
Jun 7th, 2005 - 4:37 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
Dear Dazz,
I'm sorry to hear about Teen Warrior's situation. On the other hand, I'm glad everything went well and that TW held his head up high through it all. I know it was heart warming to see Jay respond like that. Obviously, he's a good man. Thank you, Dazz, for being a great "BatMom" for TW. I can only hope that he becomes the good husband and father that neither you or he didn't have.
Even in situations like this, there is something positive to be learned. Everyone's parents are always the perfect example for their children, whether or not they are present in their lives or not. A child's parents will always be the perfect example of: WHAT to do or WHAT NOT to do!!! Obviously, you are a wonderful example of what to do, as a good parent, for your son!
I wish both of you all the best!
Sincerely,
Miss Davis
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sami
Jun 7th, 2005 - 10:39 PM Re: In Need of a Jaybird Uplift....
heya Dazzle! I just gave you a call....even with my voice sounding like a frog! I didn't get to this forum post until today! Oh gosh! I hope little peep is doing alright!
If I would've known sooner, I would've had the full metal alchemist vas give little peep a call again! I hope he's doing alright!
Give the boy a hug for me!
take care of yourself!
Cheers,
sami